"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this is childish drama, but I need mature advice...

Okay so my gf has one of those Live Journal things. Like an online profile diary thing or something.. nothing like MySpace, it's more for personal use. haha Anyway, as someone who does not have an account (me) you can still leave a comment, as anonymous entry. So I left her something stupid like hey had fun last night, blah blah... This was a week ago.. today I am on it and see someone else left her a comment. It was from some guy she went on a few dates with before me and her even met. The guys sounds like a fuking idiot.

He also made out with his best friends girlfriend, who also happens to be a good friend of mine. So I already dont like him, based on the fact he messed around with my friend, and also dated my gf at some point.

So the guy says this: "It's a shame when you let something so good slide right through your fingers........see you at your b-day party" (we are throwing a party for her in a couple weeks.)

So I see this, and I am thinking "okay first off I've heard your a ****ing idiot from her, and I doubt you'll be recieving an invitation to our party, second the fact that you messed around with your boy's girl says alot about your character, and third I know for a fact this guy is trying to piss me off" (which he did) So I held back in replying back with something retarded, and decided to seek your guy's advice.

I think it'd be fuking hilarious to call him out on what he did with his friends gf... just something super subtle.. I dunno, what you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well mature advice from me would be not to get involved in a childish drama.
 
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Panda 2000 said:
Well mature advice from me would be not to get involved in a childish drama.
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Exactly, don't pay it any mind because that type of behavior is beneath you. If he is trying to piss you off, then there is a reason for it (jealously, envy, etc.).

And don't post any comments on her Journal, those things are just a tool for people who want attention. You've got better things to do with your time.
 
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Well, she is your girl now right?
If so, who cares what some other guy had with her, as long as he isnt trying to move in on her while you are with her dont worry, and even if he is as long as you are acting and treatin yo girl the right way, he wont have a chance. Don't be jealous or pissed at some ex, it makes u seem weaker. I mean he lost her already, you got her, you already ahead of him, I mean it doesnt make sense to be jealous of someone behind you in the race.

Like panda said, dont get involved *says like he is italian* Forget about it!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kings_royalty said:
Don't be jealous or pissed at some ex, it makes u seem weaker.


True!
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Read this until you have it committed to memory.

Its been my experience that if you give a girl space (that likes you) she'll seek you out. However as soon as you start to get involved she'll start to back off. Unless she is in physical danger from this guy than the best thing for to do is stand back.
 
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