"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need a comeback

shock

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Okay so my gf has one of those Live Journal things. Like an online profile diary thing or something.. nothing like MySpace, it's more for personal use. haha Anyway, as someone who does not have an account (me) you can still leave a comment, as anonymous entry. So I left her something stupid like hey had fun last night, blah blah... This was a week ago.. today I am on it and see someone else left her a comment. It was from some guy she went on a few dates with before me and her even met. The guys sounds like a fuking idiot.

He also made out with his best friends girlfriend, who also happens to be a good friend of mine. So I already dont like him, based on the fact he messed around with my friend, and also dated my gf at some point.

So the guy says this: "It's a shame when you let something so good slide right through your fingers........see you at your b-day party" (we are throwing a party for her in a couple weeks.)

So I see this, and I am thinking "okay first off I've heard your a ****ing idiot from her, and I doubt you'll be recieving an invitation to our party, second the fact that you messed around with your boy's girl says alot about your character, and third I know for a fact this guy is trying to piss me off" (which he did) So I held back in replying back with something retarded, and decided to seek your guy's advice.

I think it'd be fuking hilarious to call him out on what he did with his friends gf... just something super subtle.. I dunno, what you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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donjuanjovi

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Why do you need a comeback? Go screw your girlfriend!
 

WesCottII

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"yeah? Well f*ck you, gaylord"
 

Phat

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"aww dude that was such a cute line..thats to bad we had to break up.. I like girls now"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Say nothing.

If you have a choice between not speaking, and speaking and sounding like a ****, then go for not speaking.
 
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