"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need a boxing routine

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Hey guys.

Recently I decided to start training for boxing. Next week I'ma join a boxing club.

I'm 124 lbs and looking to go up to 135 .. muscle ofcourse.
Last time I checked my body fat I was 18.5%

I'm 5'7 :(

Anyways, yeah I need a good routine. The one I have right now sucks. its like this:

40 Push Ups, 20 second break, again with push ups, until im tired.

40 crunches.. this is were im not so good at.. I need a fast way to improve my abs.. any suggestions?

Dumbbell curls for 7 Minutes. 25 pound dumbbell

Then I go out for a mile and a half run. I run the whole thing, no breaks.

When I get back I take a 5 minute break and than I start shadow boxing for 3 minutes, then a 30 second break, and shadowboxing again. I repeat this process for 15 minutes.

I need to improve my punching speed. Any quick way on doing this?

My only supplement is a multivitamen. (One A Day, men's health formula is the name of the vitamens.) I also have a powdered drink that is called "Carbrite diet smoothie". It has 23g protein but im afriad of taking this because of the vitamen it has and taking it with the multivitamen, i dont want to get overdosed. Should I take it? It has 2 g of carbs and 1.5g of fat. :/ Not so good if I want to gain muscle right?

So yeah, if anyone could be very very kind and provide me with a good boxing routine, supplement, and food I should eat then please, post it.

Thank you very much in advance.

-Jack Sparrow
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Triangle Choke

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Your boxing gym will take care of your punching ability. Don't worry about it. You can improve handspeed with technique and proper training, but you have your limits. Speed is genetic.
 

CLOONEY

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Boxing, greatest sport in the world.

When u run, do interval running, not just runs without stopping.

I would recommend you do about 10 minutes of skipping to start your workout. Then do about 4 rounds of shadow boxing. 4 Rounds on the heavybag. A couple of rounds on both Speedbag and floor to ceiling bag. Do abs, crunches, get a training partner and use the medicine ball.

As far as weights, you only want to do the weights that will increase your punching power, no point increasing muscles that are not going to help your boxing. Do calf raises, benchpress, deadlifts, squats.

I have boxed for years and years, its my greatest passion in life. More than woman!!

If you want some good links on this stuff, here is some advice from some of the most knowledgable men in the sport, each one is an article on conditioning, strength, supplements. Not much to read, but it will help greatly.

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9834

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9831

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9827

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9824



Good luck with the boxing, hope you really enjoy the sport and it helps your overall confidence.
 

CLOONEY

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oh yeah and love the name. Johnny Depp is the gun!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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