"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need a boxing routine

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Hey guys.

Recently I decided to start training for boxing. Next week I'ma join a boxing club.

I'm 124 lbs and looking to go up to 135 .. muscle ofcourse.
Last time I checked my body fat I was 18.5%

I'm 5'7 :(

Anyways, yeah I need a good routine. The one I have right now sucks. its like this:

40 Push Ups, 20 second break, again with push ups, until im tired.

40 crunches.. this is were im not so good at.. I need a fast way to improve my abs.. any suggestions?

Dumbbell curls for 7 Minutes. 25 pound dumbbell

Then I go out for a mile and a half run. I run the whole thing, no breaks.

When I get back I take a 5 minute break and than I start shadow boxing for 3 minutes, then a 30 second break, and shadowboxing again. I repeat this process for 15 minutes.

I need to improve my punching speed. Any quick way on doing this?

My only supplement is a multivitamen. (One A Day, men's health formula is the name of the vitamens.) I also have a powdered drink that is called "Carbrite diet smoothie". It has 23g protein but im afriad of taking this because of the vitamen it has and taking it with the multivitamen, i dont want to get overdosed. Should I take it? It has 2 g of carbs and 1.5g of fat. :/ Not so good if I want to gain muscle right?

So yeah, if anyone could be very very kind and provide me with a good boxing routine, supplement, and food I should eat then please, post it.

Thank you very much in advance.

-Jack Sparrow
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Triangle Choke

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Your boxing gym will take care of your punching ability. Don't worry about it. You can improve handspeed with technique and proper training, but you have your limits. Speed is genetic.
 

CLOONEY

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Boxing, greatest sport in the world.

When u run, do interval running, not just runs without stopping.

I would recommend you do about 10 minutes of skipping to start your workout. Then do about 4 rounds of shadow boxing. 4 Rounds on the heavybag. A couple of rounds on both Speedbag and floor to ceiling bag. Do abs, crunches, get a training partner and use the medicine ball.

As far as weights, you only want to do the weights that will increase your punching power, no point increasing muscles that are not going to help your boxing. Do calf raises, benchpress, deadlifts, squats.

I have boxed for years and years, its my greatest passion in life. More than woman!!

If you want some good links on this stuff, here is some advice from some of the most knowledgable men in the sport, each one is an article on conditioning, strength, supplements. Not much to read, but it will help greatly.

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9834

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9831

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9827

http://www.secondsout.com/Ringside/training.cfm?ccs=355&cs=9824



Good luck with the boxing, hope you really enjoy the sport and it helps your overall confidence.
 

CLOONEY

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oh yeah and love the name. Johnny Depp is the gun!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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