"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alright so first off, I broke one of my rules of not getting involved with a woman at work.

I took her out last week for the first time. Made plans with her yesterday to go out tonight but she canceled on me a few hours before and asked if we could hang out another day. Ordinarily I'd cut off contact at this point, if she reschedules cool, if not I'm onto the next one.

Butttttt, she works with me, how do I handle this one? My original plan is to just well, not react. Won't avoid her but won't seek her out either. Won't engage in conversation but won't shy away from it either.

What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how come you didnt kiss her on the first date???
 
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lol wait, I didn't tell you that. Mind blown.

I was into her but just didn't.

Edit: I can probably say it's because she's older than me and for some reason that threw me off. I tend to not kiss a girl on the first date anyway unless I'm just trying to smash, I tend to feel things out. Not kissing on first dates never really affected my game.
 
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you have to go for the kiss ASAP. women have orbiters all the time and the faster you create sone type of bond/familiarity between u and her the better things will turn out to be for u.

ask her when is she free..then schedule uour second date.. preferably where alcohol is involve. and please if you get a second date go for the jugular
 
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Tiguere said:
you have to go for the kiss ASAP. women have orbiters all the time and the faster you create sone type of bond/familiarity between u and her the better things will turn out to be for u.

ask her when is she free..then schedule uour second date.. preferably where alcohol is involve. and please if you get a second date go for the jugular
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When should I reschedule, should I go no contact for a while? Should I make her be the one to approach me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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at this point is irrelevant. text and ask her when shes free and take her out for some drinks
 
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I'd reschedule but up the ante.

Most guys take women too seriously in the first place. They get all emo when a woman flakes or acts like a b!tch. Wrong response. Instead.. just lower your respect for her with each infraction.

For instance.. once a woman ignores a text or call with a lame excuse.. I use that as license to do the same.. but also to add some disrespect to the mix. Like next time I see her.. I might point out a flaw and say something like: "Did you get your shoes from your Grandmother?" OR "Are you really blond or is it from a box?". Subtle jabs at her self-esteem.

In general.. I'm just abusive to low quality women. I'm abusive for three reasons:

1. They deserve it
2. They respond to it
3. Its fun

Remember.. with each infraction, you lower your respect. :up:
 
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As a man who has specialised in boning work colleagues, just be very cool at work and be a consummate professional. She'll be expecting you to act all weird and shy but don't.
Just carry on like nothing happened, be the funny jerk and await your next opportunity to up the ante.
 
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