"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Neck muscles

alboh

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2002
Messages
685
Reaction score
1
Do the muscles in your neck grow as you gain bulk in the gym, or do you actually have to work them out seperately? On the exercise chart in my gym there's weight exercises for your neck but this chart looks old and I'm thinking strapping a lot of weight to your neck isn't safe (my sister and my mom both suffer from whiplash, so maybe I'm being paranoid 'cause of that).

I've never actually seen anyone exercising their neck, anyway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

imnexthere

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 9, 2003
Messages
165
Reaction score
0
Location
small university campus
Im no expert but there are special workouts that focus on the neck. I dont know the routines but im sure one of the guys here is bound to. A strong neck is vital in openwheel racing esp. Formula 1 to combat g forces, they have developed special workouts and even neck strengthening machines (if my memory is correct).
 

enkai

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2002
Messages
277
Reaction score
0
Location
Charlotte, NC
get yourself a neck harness, they're like 10 bux, straps to your head, and start off with light weight cuz neck is easy to injure, and it'll grow over time, but if you train it dirrectly it'll grow big, i wanna have a huge neck, like cant put your shirt on typa ****, peace
 

alboh

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2002
Messages
685
Reaction score
1
I already do shrugs as part of my back routine, like once a week or so. I guess I'll bump it up to 2x a week.

But if I just mostly ignore my neck, I'm not gonna get left with, say, a really buff body and a jutting adam's apple, am I? That's my only real worry. I've only been doing weights for about a month so I've only seen a bit of growth so far, so I honestly can't tell.

So let me repeat the main question, just to be clear: if I just mostly ignore my neck, will it grow by itself as my other muscles grow?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Drex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 6, 2002
Messages
568
Reaction score
0
I had a visible adam's apple before I started working out and a long neck because i was so skinny. I've put on a lot of weight (muscle) in the past year and my neck has thickenned a LOT (adam's apple no longer sticks out). My neck is also not as long and skinny in appearance because I've done shrugs to build my traps up.
 
Top