"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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NC or call?

dk1990S111

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Yesterday this chick asked me to take her out to the desert. She asked what time we could go and I told her let’s head out around 5 or 6. Never got anything back after that. She has been a very flakey texter the last few weeks.

Have 2 hours now before we should be heading out. I even sent her a message 3 hours ago to tell her let’s try for 5 since sundown is at about 6:30. Still nothing back. Would you call her or just say fvck it and go NC. When we are together she has very high interest but texting with her is like pulling teeth, getting really old fast.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MountainSlide

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People say you can’t build attraction over text. I say bullshyt. get her to send you some pictures. Then you can escalate from there. Once things get nice and sexual is a good time to meet up. If she ain’t up for it then don’t waste any more time. My opinion anyway.
 
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