"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NC or call?

dk1990S111

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Yesterday this chick asked me to take her out to the desert. She asked what time we could go and I told her let’s head out around 5 or 6. Never got anything back after that. She has been a very flakey texter the last few weeks.

Have 2 hours now before we should be heading out. I even sent her a message 3 hours ago to tell her let’s try for 5 since sundown is at about 6:30. Still nothing back. Would you call her or just say fvck it and go NC. When we are together she has very high interest but texting with her is like pulling teeth, getting really old fast.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MountainSlide

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People say you can’t build attraction over text. I say bullshyt. get her to send you some pictures. Then you can escalate from there. Once things get nice and sexual is a good time to meet up. If she ain’t up for it then don’t waste any more time. My opinion anyway.
 
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