NC After Awkward Weekend, Interrupted AFC

[Driggs]

I had a bad weekend a week ago with a girl I've known for a while but only recently met. We didn't do well in a couple of ways, it was sort of complicated. She pulled something manipulative, just friended me and I told her I wasn't interested in that but I was waffling back and forth about it.

Over the years I have picked up a very mild form of panic disorder that happens in these sorts of situations and it makes me look totally nutball but that only happens right at the end. I was very AFC for several days but I cut it off after roughly 4 days and regained my frame.

I have gone NC with her. The friendship is currently hosed but maybe not too bad. This woman has revealed that she's not relationship material for me in numerous ways (and maybe not for anyone else right now, she's wackier than I am) but I would like to salvage the friendship with the most grace and the highest possible chance of success.

Should I wait a month or two and send her a letter?

I realize this may sound extremely wussy but I basically run a 2-strike system with women and she blew about five strikes last weekend-- she is nuts concerning relationships and there is no way I want to date her but she was a pretty good friend and I wouldn't mind having her back for that.

The bad week has been 1% of our total acquaintance.

 

[Skyline]

Crazy/psycho girl rejected me but i still want the friendship to be saved = bullsh*t. You want her but she doesnt want you so your ego is all hurt. So you're trying to salvage the "friendship" out of insecurity. Theres no shame in that and thats why you're here.

If shes a true nutjob, then her friends are crazy as well. People attract their own kind. You have no business with this girl and dont owe her anything. Use this time to improve YOURSELF. Oh yeah no contact means absolutely no contact ever. Its used to help YOU get over people. Thats why it usually ends in challenge.

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Bradd's Master DJ Guide:
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[Driggs]

You could be right about that. I am not feeling too pleasant about what happened, she pulled a massive jerk job. I shouldn't be the one thinking about how to salvage it.

I do have a collection of women who didn't work as relationships but did work out as friends. If that'll work with her it'll be apparent in the fullness of time. The only thing with this woman is we share some very unusual interests in common.