"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Last night I was out with my best mate whos a natural player, he somehow nails about 3 girls a week (sometimes the same ones). He has decent looks, gd body symettery, gd hair and facial hair. I was watching him just chat up girls and it was great. As soon as he started talking to them he had his arm over their shoulder so he had kino, strong eye contact, listening hard to them. After their comfortable hed say "so wheres your b/f tonight?", if they say they havnt got one he'd ask "whys that babe?" blah blah blah, they ask why and hed say with pure confidence "I just really fancy you thats all"... blah blah blah and then he usually f*ck closes. I picked up a gd wingman tip and thats to tell the girl stuff about your mate which he cant say as it would make him seem big headed. Like i was telling this grl he was chatting to that he's a fireman (wish you guys were there to see how much the intrest increased!). Most guys who take the whole pick up thing seriously will probably have a gd body so the wingman can say "hey love have you seen the body on him?? hes got the curves at the bottom of the abs and everything". You could say wow, I'm only showing you them if you kiss them. Playing around having fun! Winner

My skills obviously arent as good as his yet. I was speaking to a grl hb8, sensed an attraction and said "hay, are you on msn", got her to type it into my phone, then said "oh type your number in as well if you want" DYD style.

Im the first to admit i'm slightly insecure about my looks but somethings happening as my experience grows which I see in my mate. "The more girls you get the less respect you have for them".

I have about 5 girls now and the more I build, the less I care about 1 girl. So when I'm talking to a girl now it's more a case of, meh I have many who can replace her. So I'm not giving her half the status most guys would. This is powerful, it keeps you from falling in lust.

I was speaking to a girl and various other love puffs and told them all i can read their thoughts. They all say "go on then", so I start listing points like "your afraid you'll never replace this person", "you cant imagine the thought of them being with someone else" etc. I'm not trying to start a what is love debate I'm just staying dont respect girls too much, as my mate says "all girls are sl**s" (theres an exeption to every rule as Lifeforce said to me before). I'm not saying treat them nasty as you wont get anywhere, though if you be really nice at the start, build comfort, flirt, have kino etc. Be really nice to them at the start to the point where they think they've got you THEN turn into a jerk. Anyways i'm just starting to babble my chain of thoughts, make what you want of this post.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Be really nice to them at the start to the point where they think they've got you THEN turn into a jerk.
Actually, I'd say the opposite works better

Be the ****y ******* type who does what he wants and doesnt give a f***. They will be all over you (but usually too intimidated to actually date you), and then you let them have some comfort around you and show them that deep inside you're not THAT bad (tell them an honest compliment too, doesnt hurt AFTER they are attracted)
 

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Of course you can be ****y and funny as long as its in moderation. By a jerk a mean not returning her phone calls and stuff. That was just a small tip, the main thing is about a girls worth.
 
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