"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Natural Game

kidkoala

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There is a lot of talk about natural game. I am going to propose a theory, my opinion. I know I am not very experienced at all but i am well read.

In a book I recently read (forget which one I think it was a voice book) they spoke about 4 levels while learning
Unconscious incompetence
COnscious incompetence
COnscious competence
Unconscious competence

Now i think natural game is just unconscious competence but u can;t just have natural game, first u have to get consciously competence. As a side note I am between conscious incomptence and comptence but I ain;t giving up. PEACE
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good post. This is covered in DeAngelo's Double Your Dating seminar.

Next time take a minute or two to tidy up your post before hitting submit.
 

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Ya I was in a rush because I had a doctor's appointment and I felt I had an epiphany too bad it was already covered by David D.
 
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