"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Natural Game

kidkoala

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There is a lot of talk about natural game. I am going to propose a theory, my opinion. I know I am not very experienced at all but i am well read.

In a book I recently read (forget which one I think it was a voice book) they spoke about 4 levels while learning
Unconscious incompetence
COnscious incompetence
COnscious competence
Unconscious competence

Now i think natural game is just unconscious competence but u can;t just have natural game, first u have to get consciously competence. As a side note I am between conscious incomptence and comptence but I ain;t giving up. PEACE
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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locarius

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Good post. This is covered in DeAngelo's Double Your Dating seminar.

Next time take a minute or two to tidy up your post before hitting submit.
 

kidkoala

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Ya I was in a rush because I had a doctor's appointment and I felt I had an epiphany too bad it was already covered by David D.
 
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