Natural Alpha friend constantly annoying me with advice

[Juan from Austria]

What are you saying? Our website member is saying women are so hard and that his friend doesn't understand the "difficulties" the rest of us face...

Personally I don't think his alpha buddy would even put up with it, the feminist and stuck up ones would be invisible to him. He'd fvck everything that is advertising itself to him.

I was once with him in a convention and he tried to pick up one of the stewardess there (pretty much a 9 -10), as soon as he saw that he wasn´t going to be successful he immediately gave her a small compliment, ended the conversation and moved on. The whole thing was in less then 5 minutes over.

So yes, this tactic is definitely good in order to avoid sh*t and drama. He doesn´t try to "convince her" or to "conquer her", he starts a conversation for a few minutes and then watches what happens. If things are looking good he stays in the game, if it doesn´t he breaks contact and moves on.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

You will never find what you seek if you stay on the sidelines.

You must get out of your head and get into the field. Otherwise your chance of success (as you choose to define it) will remain zero. Zero chance of success does you no good.

Emulate what your friend does to practice & enjoy flirting & interaction with women. From that standpoint you can learn much from him; you can boost your social comfort level, truly learn not to care about the outcome of an interaction...and gain real confidence & swagger (which women find attractive).

You don't have to have sex with women you don't find to your taste...but they are good practice if nothing more.

Ask your friend how he met his wife. Was it arranged or did they meet naturally? That could shed some light on meeting a woman with some standards.