"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Duke

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I've always wanted to start a website for guys to share info on women they've had in their past. I'd have their real names, dating site usernames, city they lived in, pictures, known std's etc, if they liked sex, what they were like to date, job status, how many times they have been married, age, flaker or not, how they behaved, how long and who they had been with, etc. Guys could post comments. Kind of like thedirty.com. Basically it could serve as a library of knowledge and be the modern day "scarlet letter".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Sounds like something chicks would do.
 

The Duke

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I'd use is more as a tool to screen out the teasers from the pleasers. Its really no different than a future employer running a background check before they hire you.
 

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Women already have one with some of those features. Look up the app LULU. You just might be on it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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