Nasty e-mail

[afc_recovering]

Ben,

I've been thinking about what you told me and it's really got me seriously reconsidering our relationship. When I first met you, you were nice and most of all you cared about girls feelings, but somewhere along the way you've changed. You've become (this may sound harsh) a *****. You may think you're pretty cool because all the guys are jealous, but many girls can see you as what you are, a slut. You're using girls like objects and that's just messed up. You used to be this sweet guy and now you're this **** who doesn't care about anything except your desires. Have you ever thought about how all the popular girls you're getting with now ignored you a couple years ago, yet you turn around and treat the girls who have been here for you all along like ****? That's messed up. Now I can handle what you did to me but I can't believe how you twisted Danielle's mind around and made her think you loved her just to get in her pants. I mean did you ever stop to think that her and Aaron were happy together? There's something gone wrong with you, and I don't think we should hang out anymore. Sorry if this comes off as a little bit harsh, but I really care about you Ben and I think it's time you turned back into the guy that you once were, because you've hurt so many girls and stirred up so much ****.

Luv You,
Sarah


Jesus christ. At first, like many I was proud and found it funny. But this girls always ben around for me and for her to say this really makes me think. I can't stop thinking about how I've messed around. Anyways, questions, comments?

 

[elsmu405]

Holy crap. You truely pimpin, haha!!!

 

[blinkwatt]

ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS,ITS YOU'R LIFE YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT!

Let me ask you this....If you would have never received that email would you still continue the way you are now? You shouldn't let one persons email change your lifestyle.

 

[rocky_mtn]

Men can not be sluts. Only women are sluts. Men are just men who want it.

And going for your desires is what men do. Don't appologize

F that B, and I would reply " I had a good time too"

make then prove their worth.

 

[DJDamage]

Yes you better listen to her. You need to turn back to that sweet nice guy who doesn't follow his digusting sexual urges and bang chicks left and right. Why you are offending all the girls you slept with you barbarian!! Its your fault that they all sleep with you! they don't have a mind of their own can't you see that???

I suggest you listen to her and change your behaviour so you can appease her and all her girfriends. This way you can avoid all the nasty emails and won't be labled a player. You will have peace and quiet knowing that since you are not sleeping around you won't have enemies and won't lose precious friendships. You will be happy having lots and lots of platonic female friends as you hold hands with them and sing kumbaya in front of a blazing campfire. After this you can go and buy yourself a nice dress.......

 

[Firefly]

So now that you are becoming the person that you've always wanted to be, your "friend" is trying to emotionally blackmail you into going back to the unhappy, frustrated guy you were before? Sounds like a great "friend" to me!

Just out of curiosity, I am sure Sarah was letting guys bang her and treat her like crap, while letting you be her good little platonic friend. Do you think she ever wrote anything like that to those guys, or does she only have the courage to do it to her male "friends"?

 

[( . )( . )]

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Ok babe you take care, btw you gotta try that Paul Newmans ranch dressing, this stuff is the sh!t.



Nice work boning Danielle also dude, keep it up.

 

[i am me]

nice job pimp...but i would feel kinda guilty if i got a letter like that. jus cus it makes me seem like an evil dude when im jus tryna hav fun

anyway, i think u should tell her that u havent forgotton about girls like her and blah blah she still means somethin to u but u arent gonna change cus ur jus havin fun

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Talk about a jealous girl! Keep it up man,this email is just another sh!t-test.Stick to your guns cause you're hitting the f'in target!

Cheers.

 

[Trapper]

did you bang her?

 

[MrConfidence]

Ditch her.

 

[afc_recovering]

Ok thanks for the replies guys, a few things should be cleared up.

1. The girl who wrote the e-mail was my oneitis when I came to the site. We dated from like April-May, then we decided to break it off because I got drunk and cheated on her (barely, like making out and fingering). She's been my friend since and lately she's developed a crush on me so we've been fooling around and she wants me and her to go out again but I told her I'm not ready for another relationship.

2. Danielle is like her best friend and I f*cked her like 3-4 weeks ago. (my first lay, don't turn me into a huge player) and she got the idea that I was her one and only pretty much and dumped her boyfriend of 2 years.

Now as for the popular chicks, I've only layed 1 of them but gotten head from a few others and it's well known that 3 or 4 of them want me.

So on the whole I've only slept with 3 girls total, not the player I'm made out to be. Hope that clears stuff up.

 

[ChrizZ]

You´re da man, player

 

[Kings_royalty]

Ok babe you take care, btw you gotta try that Paul Newmans ranch dressing, this stuff is the sh!t.

love this response.

 

[Bloke]

Going by what you just said you've banged 3 chicks in 3-4 weeks.

You are the messiah.

In all seriousness, the real reason behind her being pissed at you is you're changing... & she hates it. People hate it when other change around them, it makes them feel bad. She's basically spelt out to you that you were a nice guy. But now she sees you being a pimp (in her eyes) & that makes her feel bad because she feels she missing out on something.

 

[afc_recovering]

Alright guys so just a little bit of an update.

So the girl came and sat beside me today at lunch and told me how sorry she was about the e-mail and such. She said she didn't know what she was thinking and that she was just really upset about the sh*t in her life. Then she told me that her parents were gone and asked me if I wanted to come over after our game and I said "nah I think some of the 'popular' girls are having people over, it'd definetely be way more fun." And then out of the corner of my eye I spotted 2 of them and said "excuse me" and got up and sat with them.

This kinda was a d!ck move and I did make it seem like she was able to affect my emotions but meh I can deal with that.

 

[Brian Griffin]

Making girls feel like sh!t is not a DJ. Quit with the mind games.

You're a loser man.

 

[Panda 2000]

Nice going. But when you talked to her later, you should have agreed to come over to her place to bang her. I mean, why not? What you did is a bit harsh, mainly because she admitted her mistake and apologized. I think if a person is truly apologetic, they shouldn't be punished for their mistakes further.

 

[afc_recovering]

Well I suppose you can't please them all. The only reason I was a jerk was because she's been majorly ****blocking me for a few weeks and I told her she had to put her jealousy aside and stop stopping me from finding 'the one' simply because she thinks that she is the one. That was what that part at the start is about 'I've thinking about what you told me" I could go bang her but I'm done with her because she's looking for a husband and I'm looking for a good time.

And Brian_Griffin, one day when you've stepped up your game you're going to realise that you can't keep all the girls happy and if you're going to run around and have a good time like me and my buddies do, you're going to get haters and you can't stop that. You'll get in a few fights, get some girls verbalising their hatred for you, no matter what you do. Maybe that's not how you want to spend your time, call it immaturaty but I'm living my teen years up like noone else I know.

As for you saying I was an a$s, my favourite rapper puts it well:
"you sh!t on me, I sh!t on you. You put a hit on me, I put a hit on you. An eye for an eye, survive the shots or die"
-Fifty Cent

 

[DJDamage]

Making girls feel like sh!t is not a DJ. Quit with the mind games.

You're a loser man.

Its the other way around, she was fvcking with his mind. She sends him an email, hoping for a reaction (a sh1t test). She was hoping that he would feel bad and thus he would come back running towards her in panic and appologise like what 90% of guys do.

Since she didn't get that (silence is sometimes golden) she realised that he doesn't give a sh1t because he is got other options and decided to retract her statement. He played her sh1t test perfectly. Now she will want him more!

Please post her next email because I am sure she is going to write one.

Nice going by the way. More Men need to stop putting with B.S tests and walk away the less women will play them.