Richmond69
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Dude scars what's up with u? Ur sayin the dj way is garbage haha?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Narcissism : How to fight it?
- Thread starter Alex DeLarge
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mr. Fantastic
Don Juan
Narcissism is the denial of oneself for the sake of others. If you buy a Ferrari to impress people you probably are a narcissist. You should only buy a Ferrari because you like Ferrari's not because everyone will like you more for having one. If you take a quiz to find out how narcissistic you are and then post the results online you probably are a narcissist. Why does it matter how other people think of you? That is the difference between the narcissist and the truly confident. One cares about his appearance in the eyes of others, one does not.
Alex the reason why she thought you were narcissist was because she thought you were trying to prove yourself to her or show off. A common theme in Shakespeare's plays is when one character condemns another he is often just condemning himself. She and her friend are probably narcissistic and try to prove themselves to others. It would be different however if you really were trying to show off to them, but if you were just conversing without the intent of showing off then they are more than likely just reflecting themselves onto you. (Remember this when women say "all men think about is sex!" because it is all they think about.)
I've also noticed this when trying to have some sort of intellectual discussion with women. They seem to think that instead of actually having a conversation with them you are trying to prove how smart you are to them. Women care more about how they appear to others than how they actually are.
This sums it up nicely---->
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afoBIMQzENE&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PLF6B94155B71F347B
Alex the reason why she thought you were narcissist was because she thought you were trying to prove yourself to her or show off. A common theme in Shakespeare's plays is when one character condemns another he is often just condemning himself. She and her friend are probably narcissistic and try to prove themselves to others. It would be different however if you really were trying to show off to them, but if you were just conversing without the intent of showing off then they are more than likely just reflecting themselves onto you. (Remember this when women say "all men think about is sex!" because it is all they think about.)
I've also noticed this when trying to have some sort of intellectual discussion with women. They seem to think that instead of actually having a conversation with them you are trying to prove how smart you are to them. Women care more about how they appear to others than how they actually are.
This sums it up nicely---->
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=afoBIMQzENE&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PLF6B94155B71F347B
SlapJackPat
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Im riddled as to why you care what she thinks in the first place, she isnt qualified to label you.
Plus if the other chick digs you ,so what?
Plus if the other chick digs you ,so what?
Scars
Master Don Juan
It's a great stepping stone for newbies/ACF's but a lot of us out grew the material. I think there's different levels of development and "truths" so to speak, we are all at different levels of development. That's why I generally ask a lot of questions before giving advice because I don't want to overload the user with too much information.Richmond69 said:
-Scars