"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Name your top 5 sosuave posters

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comic_relief

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Francisco d'Aniconia
comic_relief (gotta have myself in there :whistle: )
Rollo Tomassi (don't agree with him on everything but an interesting poster nonetheless)
Crazykid (although his account has become defunct)
Desdinova
Senor Fingers

I used to enjoy Pook but I have overread everything by him.

- comic_relief
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sodbuster

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not in any particular order

Jophil
Rollo
pook
anti-dump
str8tup-even though I think he was fishing for fish in a sewage lagoon,wondering why he only caught turds
 
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J. Darko

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S.U.R.F.

Sometimes Warrior74. He has some good down to earth short posts, but he's too much in this whole Don Juan thing.

Sometimes CuriousGirl when she posts in women-hating threads and she puts angry nerds back in their place, which is pretty awesome. Other times she's just a girly girl with girly advice, which is pretty lame.

Most overrated is Pook. At first, I really liked his posts. But, now I think he was just a mental masturbator. He could've just made his point without all the philosophical gayness and his posts about evil women, feminists and AFC-hating are pathetic.
 
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ThePrize

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Oh my it looks like people here are starting to forget..

Pook and AD were legends here you know :rolleyes:

Especially these new guys full of hatred are no good for me. Why take advice of people who are not even happy themselves?

The world is a reflection of your believes. You will attract that on which you focus. Don't hate women because you will only see those that are hateable.

Pook said that what you think you will become. He was right and so was Buddha.

If only he had taken his own words more to heart he wouldn't have chosen such believes of misandry for his reality.

Anyways my list:

Pook
AD
Rollo
Squirrels
Backbreaker (is that his nick)

Thanks guys you helped me alot a while back in getting to know myself!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warrior74

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Rollo
Pook
Victory Unlimited
Jophil
Backbreaker


Anyone can give advice, not everyone can take it. Not everyone can even take their own advice. I'm very guilty of that. You really don't need too much advice. Like the man said...

“The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it.”
Norman Schwarzkopf
 
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I have personally hacked all 57 posters who voted for me, and deleted their posts... Cuz, you know.... Im a rebel!
 
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