That put you in the right mindstate before you head out into the field. Honestly, I mostly listen to electronica and indie music and obscure things and don't like most mainstream music, but one thing mainstream music like rap and R&B is good for is getting you into the right mood before you roll out. What songs do you guys listen to that helps create the right vibe?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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