"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nailing down the first meeting from online?

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Ok so this girl approached me from a dating site saturday morning and even sent me two messages back to back. The first one was just hey I like your profile... but one minute later the second one mocked something funny I said in my profile about me be hopefully begrudgingly considering her cuz she was...; I said I wanted someone who would treat me bad and hopefully cheat on me cuz I like pain but that I would begrudgingly consider a nice girl who treats others well. So I responded later that day with a short message kind of mimicking what she said and said I'd love to take her out and see where it goes. I got no response for two days so in the mean time I asked some women about it and they said asking her out so fast was creepy. I was like wtf asking a girl out from a dating site is creepy so clearly I don't get it. Anyways she did finally responsd monday and gave me her number telling me to text her. I was busy and figured it would be best to wait so I finally texted her wed. We texted for a bit and then today she sent me a text in the afternoon and we texted back and forth for a couple of hours but with alot of time in between cuz we were at work. At this point I'd have to say her interest is fairly high and I want to keep it that way cuz she does seem, from what little I know of her, to have good gf potential.

Ok so I don't want to keep bsing around and texting with a girl I haven't even met but I don't want to look "creepy" either. I'm going to go ahead and text her tonight and see where that goes but I just want to nail down a meeting and see what happens. So what is my next move? Where is that line of texting back and forth to give her a feel for me that I'm not a rapist and not just bsing around and looking like a wuss? What about calling vs texting, how much to text and when to call?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Asking a women on the first day of talking shows that you are needy and may look creepy too, don't do that again.
You are texting for couple of days now, you should now escalate to calling, talk to her on the phone for atleast two days and then ask her out to meet up. its going to work. Pick a public place. Good luck
 
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oneboy21 said:
Asking a women on the first day of talking shows that you are needy and may look creepy too, don't do that again.
You are texting for couple of days now, you should now escalate to calling, talk to her on the phone for atleast two days and then ask her out to meet up. its going to work. Pick a public place. Good luck
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What I am about to write does not mean I disagree with you.

but it's a fuc**** dating site. Asking a girl out to a public place to interact with another human being is not fuc**** creepy or needy. It's a dating site! You're both there to meet someone to hang out with and possibly build a relationship with.

Women are so retarded and judgmental, it's best not to try to figure them out. Personally, I do whatever the F I want, and if she likes it, good, if she doesn't, cya.

It's a pet peeve of mine to see women call guys names and label them with their judgments. They are retards.
 
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