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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan

Jul 20, 2008

Luke Skywalker said:
I already used the internet at an internet cafe when I went for the Carnival and my Aunt got angry with me for looking for girls on that venue

The "reframing" thing works with women you are not dating, too. Tell your Aunt that you are on Christian dating sites, and you use myspace to make sure that a girl is a good Christian before you talk to her. Make her think you are using the Internet for what she sees as good, not evil. The entire point of sites like christianmingle.com is to screen out non-Christians and meet similar people. That's the same thing your Aunt and Mother want for you.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.