"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Luke Skywalker said:
I already used the internet at an internet cafe when I went for the Carnival and my Aunt got angry with me for looking for girls on that venue

The "reframing" thing works with women you are not dating, too. Tell your Aunt that you are on Christian dating sites, and you use myspace to make sure that a girl is a good Christian before you talk to her. Make her think you are using the Internet for what she sees as good, not evil. The entire point of sites like christianmingle.com is to screen out non-Christians and meet similar people. That's the same thing your Aunt and Mother want for you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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