"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Myth of the universal Chad

Pandora

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Just because girls swipe right on 10% of the guys doesn't mean that they would sleep with these guys. In person chemistry is a lot different than in picture chemistry. No guy is a universal Chad. Not even close ( some guys are closer than others tho). The most attractive guys I knew only cornered at most 50% of the female vagina market. Many girls were just not into them for whatever reason.

Every guy has market niche. Some girls like me ( I look like a skinny younger Wayne Brady lol ) more than they like the fitness model guy. Its more random than you think. Just be in good shape and some chick is going to find you hot. I have hot girls that put me in the friend zone. I was junk to them. I end up smashing their attractive friend who thought I was worthy enough to enter their vagina. Go figure. One girls trash is another girls treasure.

On a side note. Many of the girls that put you in the friend zone but still love being around you have some subconscious hang up about you. Most behavior begins in the subconscious. The subconscious is a very mysterious thing. This is why dreams are so weird. Being too hard on yourself about women is like trying to make sense of the subconscious. Trying to make sense of chaos will turn you into a crazy person. Leave it alone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jaymbrs

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You have to mold yourself to attract those you want to be attracted to you. Do you like athletic type women? Get involved in sports and fitness. Do you like the church type? Go to church. Do you want party girls? Get involved with alcohol and drugs. If you build it, they will come.
 
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