"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mystery's Q&A - Do you agree or disagree?

DJDamage

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDjTwRASi6Q

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTDzQQCXVcQ&mode=related&search=

I think Mystery is bang on 75% of the answers. The other 25% requires you to go above and beyond the Mystery method (which is what seperates a DJ and PUA and also would not make him as much money) and to become a better man. You don't need canned openers if you actually become an interesting indvidual and hitting the gym will definitely work in your favour as oppose to accepting who you are and not trying.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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A couple of things about the videos; I completely love the idea of approaching a group after your target has left temporarily, talk about keeping her unaware of your intentions (I wish I had thought of that).

Second, about online sarging; I think he's concerns about the length of time it could take a guy to sarge a woman is about guys with only basic communication skills. I bet he would do well just because he knows how to tell a story to gain a woman's interest and he knows how to escalate well.

Couple that with good qualification skills and a guy can meet up with a woman face to face after just a couple interactions (emails) which has taken you 10-20 minutes to write. Plus, you don't have to start over when you meet. If the interest is there you could number, kiss or fvck close on the first date.

As for your observations DJD, I agree that if he goes beyond his method his payoff wouldn't be nearly as good, look at Doc Love. You're correct that canned lines aren't necessary but a charismatic personality is very important. As for the gym, I don't think it's necessary. Look at Mystery, how often do you think that he lifts weights? Just be healthy (ie. not too fat), and presentable and you can do well. But having a tight body definately doesn't hurt. :up:
 

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lol at the penis question. Does penis size matter ? Yah it matters.
 

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I wish I had cable. I'd watch it. But I purposely don't have cable anymore as i watch very little tv.
 
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