"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mystery's Q&A - Do you agree or disagree?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDjTwRASi6Q

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTDzQQCXVcQ&mode=related&search=

I think Mystery is bang on 75% of the answers. The other 25% requires you to go above and beyond the Mystery method (which is what seperates a DJ and PUA and also would not make him as much money) and to become a better man. You don't need canned openers if you actually become an interesting indvidual and hitting the gym will definitely work in your favour as oppose to accepting who you are and not trying.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A couple of things about the videos; I completely love the idea of approaching a group after your target has left temporarily, talk about keeping her unaware of your intentions (I wish I had thought of that).

Second, about online sarging; I think he's concerns about the length of time it could take a guy to sarge a woman is about guys with only basic communication skills. I bet he would do well just because he knows how to tell a story to gain a woman's interest and he knows how to escalate well.

Couple that with good qualification skills and a guy can meet up with a woman face to face after just a couple interactions (emails) which has taken you 10-20 minutes to write. Plus, you don't have to start over when you meet. If the interest is there you could number, kiss or fvck close on the first date.

As for your observations DJD, I agree that if he goes beyond his method his payoff wouldn't be nearly as good, look at Doc Love. You're correct that canned lines aren't necessary but a charismatic personality is very important. As for the gym, I don't think it's necessary. Look at Mystery, how often do you think that he lifts weights? Just be healthy (ie. not too fat), and presentable and you can do well. But having a tight body definately doesn't hurt. :up:
 
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lol at the penis question. Does penis size matter ? Yah it matters.
 
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I wish I had cable. I'd watch it. But I purposely don't have cable anymore as i watch very little tv.
 
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