"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Mystery's interviews on youtube

daygameguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2008
Messages
996
Reaction score
27
Location
NY

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Joined
Sep 27, 2008
Messages
524
Reaction score
3
is it really that easy? is that all there is too it? I mean, read some of the responses in the videos about the **** tests, *****iness, keeping the frame, etc, as well as charisma, charm, positive vibe, I feel I may be too depressed to give off tha vibe, even been shy at times.
 

daygameguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2008
Messages
996
Reaction score
27
Location
NY
CapedCrusader08 said:
is it really that easy? is that all there is too it? I mean, read some of the responses in the videos about the **** tests, *****iness, keeping the frame, etc, as well as charisma, charm, positive vibe, I feel I may be too depressed to give off tha vibe, even been shy at times.
Well, this thread is just for putting out some links. However, in response to your problem, I think you already know all the answers. The key is to develop a good personality which attracts people. That's it.
 
Last edited:

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

hopeful loner

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2006
Messages
59
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Mystery was repeatedly tooled during that interview and totally came off as a clownish mountebank. He was essentially a ten minute joke.
 
Top