"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mystery's interviews on youtube

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is it really that easy? is that all there is too it? I mean, read some of the responses in the videos about the **** tests, *****iness, keeping the frame, etc, as well as charisma, charm, positive vibe, I feel I may be too depressed to give off tha vibe, even been shy at times.
 

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CapedCrusader08 said:
is it really that easy? is that all there is too it? I mean, read some of the responses in the videos about the **** tests, *****iness, keeping the frame, etc, as well as charisma, charm, positive vibe, I feel I may be too depressed to give off tha vibe, even been shy at times.
Well, this thread is just for putting out some links. However, in response to your problem, I think you already know all the answers. The key is to develop a good personality which attracts people. That's it.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mystery was repeatedly tooled during that interview and totally came off as a clownish mountebank. He was essentially a ten minute joke.
 
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