"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where exactly is it on the site though? I've looked through the routines and didn't find it.Boschy said:That line is straight off http://www.bristollair.com/
Pure gold, but yes, nothing in this world is new.
Yeah, season previews show them approaching in what I believe is a park or something.
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I live in Houston, and white people were one of the minorities at my high school. Black and Hispanic were the most prominent groups. And this is one of the biggest schools in the city! There are people of every race and religion in my city, we're pretty tolerant of everything. Sure there are rednecks around, but you'd find that kind of ignorance anywhere.
There. State: Defended.
For me, I could care less if the girl is Indian, black, Asian, Latino, white, brown, whatever...!
To me as long as she looks good and carries herself well, I could really care less about her ethnicity!
If me as a "shallow male" am able to grasp that, then I sure as hell won't put up with some girl who doesn't! I have standards!
I think they did a decent job of picking a diverse racial cast which is good! I am kinda disappointed that they didn't place a black dude on there since a lot of the black people I've known seem to be rather good with women. Oh well... Whatever!
Now Pradeep I believe will be one of the first to go! I say that NOT because of his race, but he just screams "loser!" If you've seen some of the behind the scenes video clips; on the bus he tells one of the guys, "You don't check out the meat and potatoes?" Haha, was funny to see everyone politely respond with, "Uhh, okay?" in their body language towards him. He's just 'trying' too hard to be cool, and I don't see how he can keep up with the group!
Haha, I think Scott is awesome! While the dude probably might not win, I think he is pretty damn cool for a nerdy guy! I just want to see that guy reap some success because he just seems like a genuinely nice guy!
The thing I don't like about this show is those guys who get eliminated are getting even more rejection, and it makes me feel kinda bad to see a TV show make money off of other guys' failures! While what we the viewers probably remember is the contestants success, I would hate to think of the damage done to those that got booted off the show in the early stages.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I'm half asian and chicks get all stupid around me most of the time.superchill89 said:
Having lived in texas, there are lot's of brown people there. Good size asian population too.
I mostly fast forwarded through most of the videos. Mostly fluff. I liked Juggler's Seduction School better. Didn't get to see the last episode before it was pulled. I just don't trust these reality shows, though...some of the one's on MTV are staged and flat out lies.
Well, when things start to go mainstream the next thing you can expect are seduction conventions :-/
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dayum! tell it like it is dood :crackup:DjDan said:
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however I think the show is gay..and if your in your mid 20s on it stop embarassing yourself.
they all were foaming at the mouth when mystery and his guys could talk to women.
why dont they have a show where they show some weak guys how to be real men
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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it's called ultimate fighter on spike! tv..though I would'nt call them weak :nervous:frivolousz21 said:
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This is one of the most stereotypical pieces of racist bullsh*t I've ever heard.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
well you're not really teaching anything except racism, and limiting beliefs which goes against the whole pickup mindset. if you want to teach your method so badly make your own site and create your own racist little pickup cult. I'll even provide you with a link to create it with... http://invisionfree.comDjDan said:
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