"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mystery Reveals New Book
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Brandonc662
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Thanks for the heads up. Applicate the link.
Brandonc662
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I was telling you I applicate the Link, that was why it was preceded by the thank you.bachelor said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dannyegg4575
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anyway i can dl this? or someone can pdf the file to me?
Why does the guy insist on putting in a chapter called "evolutionary backdrop" without referencing any proper scientific theory?
and if thats not enough he feels the need to bamboozle everyone with graphs and flow charts on something that shouldnt be this complicated.
Judging by the contents this book it seems to be the same thing on repeat. Which has been a theme for Mystery lately.
He has nothing new to add, you get the impression when he talks that he is constantly running routines.
and if thats not enough he feels the need to bamboozle everyone with graphs and flow charts on something that shouldnt be this complicated.
Judging by the contents this book it seems to be the same thing on repeat. Which has been a theme for Mystery lately.
He has nothing new to add, you get the impression when he talks that he is constantly running routines.
BeyondCharm
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Mystery is not the best cat in this game imo. He focuses on routine's wheras I like guys who focus on building up the individual because after that, the routines come ala natural as normal everyday speech rather than scripted and planned.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonJoseCantosie
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Those ranks are only of guys who just influenced the community. Ross Jeffries was the pioneer, David D made it marketable. Mystery and Style then made the stuff more clear, was he foundation. Not overall skill in my opinion. Alan Roger Currie a.k.a Mode One, King Flex and Player Supreme def should rank as "Best" Players no doubt. Player Supreme with his seeing multiple girls at the same time bit, a.k.a team building, King Flex for macking no doubt, and Alan for bringin direct even further.
Its all subjective. The rank also is prolly of who has the most popular and most money making system. If any person in the game can do that, they do deserve props, despite its negatives.
.d But i agree J-flex, too many guys on here are symping. They need to stop being cowards and go out there. Seriously, wats the point of the forum then if ur not?
The best player in the world probably isn't the guy trying to make money out of it... It is also subjective so it is pointless arguing about.
Mystery is brilliant for what he has done, although I don't aspire to be like him. We can still learn a lot from him, though. Still, doesn't look like he is coming out with anything new. Cheers for the link though!
j-flex is just a tool no one should listen to him.
Mystery is brilliant for what he has done, although I don't aspire to be like him. We can still learn a lot from him, though. Still, doesn't look like he is coming out with anything new. Cheers for the link though!
j-flex is just a tool no one should listen to him.
I agree that Mystery has done well with the community. I am very astounded that you would be so critical of him and not just look at the positives....
Sure Mystery runs alot of routines? You can learn a lot of what Mystery has to offer.
I don't understand why people on this forum don't just suck in the positives of what each PUG in this case brings to the table...
Sure Mystery runs alot of routines? You can learn a lot of what Mystery has to offer.
I don't understand why people on this forum don't just suck in the positives of what each PUG in this case brings to the table...
Here is my view on the whole freakshow:
Ross Jeffries: Manipulative son of a b!tch that tries to sell fairytales to poor suckers. I like the guy.
ModeOne: Sounds great in theory, but the guy is also in the entertainment industry and is good looking. That´s why his stuff works better for him than for others. I like the guy though.
Player_Supreme: Has a good forum with lots of great info on how to behave like a player and to build a team of women. However you can only get ugly or average women with his style of game since super hotties will never give you EC since they are used to attractive people in their lives. You have to be different from the pack and you can only do that by talking to her and not wait like a pu$$y and hope she´ll look at you.
Deangelo: There is no proof at all that he gets women. Most of his advice is just common sense stuff. He´s just a very good marketer. His techniques don´t work.
J-Flex: The guy is a tool. His game basically consists of flashing with as much cash as possible to get women.
Mystery: I´ve never seen him with a hot woman. I don´t like his techniques either. He caters to mostly nerds and desperate guys.
Juggler: Has some good points on being a good conversationalist. I like the method, too. I recommend him.
Most of all I recommend direct guys like Badboy and Shark. The methods are all about giving you rock solid confidence and as we know real confidence is the No.1 trait that attracts women.
Ross Jeffries: Manipulative son of a b!tch that tries to sell fairytales to poor suckers. I like the guy.
ModeOne: Sounds great in theory, but the guy is also in the entertainment industry and is good looking. That´s why his stuff works better for him than for others. I like the guy though.
Player_Supreme: Has a good forum with lots of great info on how to behave like a player and to build a team of women. However you can only get ugly or average women with his style of game since super hotties will never give you EC since they are used to attractive people in their lives. You have to be different from the pack and you can only do that by talking to her and not wait like a pu$$y and hope she´ll look at you.
Deangelo: There is no proof at all that he gets women. Most of his advice is just common sense stuff. He´s just a very good marketer. His techniques don´t work.
J-Flex: The guy is a tool. His game basically consists of flashing with as much cash as possible to get women.
Mystery: I´ve never seen him with a hot woman. I don´t like his techniques either. He caters to mostly nerds and desperate guys.
Juggler: Has some good points on being a good conversationalist. I like the method, too. I recommend him.
Most of all I recommend direct guys like Badboy and Shark. The methods are all about giving you rock solid confidence and as we know real confidence is the No.1 trait that attracts women.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
thefonz
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I'm not really big into mystery. I've tried some of his stuff and it's tailored to him. Not to everyone.
I don't know how I would bring a random girl home, open my laptop and start saying, "Look at that one star beyond these other stars. It might have life. This ONE star far away, so insignificant to us, may be soo significant to others." Would that seriously work? Just given that one piece of advice alone is not going to get you laid.
As influential as he is to the community he's still a businessman first and PUA second.
I don't know how I would bring a random girl home, open my laptop and start saying, "Look at that one star beyond these other stars. It might have life. This ONE star far away, so insignificant to us, may be soo significant to others." Would that seriously work? Just given that one piece of advice alone is not going to get you laid.
As influential as he is to the community he's still a businessman first and PUA second.
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Could not agree with you any more!n00bPimp said:
mackdaknife
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Let's face it, none of us have ever met these guys, so it's pointless to shellack them in this way.
I CAN however, critique their material. I skimmed through the preview chapter in a minute or two. It looks to be a retread of his previous book. Sure, there are some revisions and additions here and there. So what? You would learn these things for yourself after one night out.
I CAN however, critique their material. I skimmed through the preview chapter in a minute or two. It looks to be a retread of his previous book. Sure, there are some revisions and additions here and there. So what? You would learn these things for yourself after one night out.
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