Comeback kid
Don Juan
Would Mystery Method work in high school? Ive been studying it lately. But it seems like it was only set up for a club setting.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Social Proof is ALL that counts in high school.Comeback kid said:Would Mystery Method work in high school? Ive been studying it lately. But it seems like it was only set up for a club setting.
if a lame dork would have asked me about workout routines when i was a varsity stud in high school i would have hung him upside down in the young hors bathroom :kick: i am serious. cool kids don't mix with clowns like you folks.DonJoseCantosie said:actually...i would say if u want to date certain hotties, than yea...in hs..its important...but if its just hotties in general...then i wouldn't quite say social proof is everyhing. But to make it easy, just say hi to tons of people. Ask about them and what not. If its a jock, ask them about work out routines? If its a prep, ask them where they get their clothes from. The more u talk to them, the more u'll get social proof. Its not hard to do for that setting. Just talk to all kinds of people and wa lla. Ur def known in the school.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
you only say that because you are still in high school. you are in denial.krazyboy99 said:u werent a varsity stud, and no, real jocks dont act like that for the most part. u've been watching revenge of the nerds too much
Just by this reply u have here, u don't seem like one of those cool guy at all. No joke. Jocks are mad glad to be asked of work out routines, it gives them a feeling of Accomplishment that they're helping out a fellow man with expertise. Only a few jocks are straight up idiots as ur mentioning them to be. If u fit in this category, congrats. I asked a few when i was a freshman in HS, starting out and they were more than happy to show me. People aren't as rotten as ur implying. Maybe my high school wasn't one of those bad ones.aldaris said:if a lame dork would have asked me about workout routines when i was a varsity stud in high school i would have hung him upside down in the young hors bathroom :kick: i am serious. cool kids don't mix with clowns like you folks.
why do you think american high school movies are so cool with the foreigners? it scares the hell out of them! nobody wants to be my ***** for four years. nobody! i don't know why americans had saddam killed. that was the easy way out. you want pain and torture? it isn't an iraqi prison (even with demented lesbo american guards). it is four years of hoping that the cool kids (like me) won't laugh at you. it is having the teacher buddy up to a guy like me while the same teacher (america's heroes
) make fun of the quiet kid who sits in the back.
damn, i wish i could go back for four more years. i think i will go cradle my old football. i might sleep with it![]()
and if you think what i just typed was bull**** i dare you to think back to those glorious four years of high school.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
None of the guys I know would have to brag on an internet fourm about being a varsity star...aldaris said:if a lame dork would have asked me about workout routines when i was a varsity stud in high school i would have hung him upside down in the young hors bathroom :kick: i am serious. cool kids don't mix with clowns like you folks.
why do you think american high school movies are so cool with the foreigners? it scares the hell out of them! nobody wants to be my ***** for four years. nobody! i don't know why americans had saddam killed. that was the easy way out. you want pain and torture? it isn't an iraqi prison (even with demented lesbo american guards). it is four years of hoping that the cool kids (like me) won't laugh at you. it is having the teacher buddy up to a guy like me while the same teacher (america's heroes
) make fun of the quiet kid who sits in the back.
damn, i wish i could go back for four more years. i think i will go cradle my old football. i might sleep with it![]()
and if you think what i just typed was bull**** i dare you to think back to those glorious four years of high school.
and please get rid of that name! you are 100% american! geez, your parents couldn't make it back in the old country. be proud of living in a country with the fattest teen girls on the planet as well as a country that proudly boasts of 1 in 4 teen girls as having a std.DJVladdy said:Ald, hint: before you pretend to be a "popular jock", try to find out who the jocks really are and how they behave.