Comeback kid
Don Juan
Would Mystery Method work in high school? Ive been studying it lately. But it seems like it was only set up for a club setting.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mystery Method in High School
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nah man I dont like to follow the MM stuff in High School.
All thats key is that you joke around and be playful in HS.Obviously not too much but you get the point.
Some of the concepts though you can still alter them but definatly some of the stuff isnt necessary and shouldnt really be done in HS but as I said the main ideas are still generally used in all places.
All thats key is that you joke around and be playful in HS.Obviously not too much but you get the point.
Some of the concepts though you can still alter them but definatly some of the stuff isnt necessary and shouldnt really be done in HS but as I said the main ideas are still generally used in all places.
DonJoseCantosie
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actually...i would say if u want to date certain hotties, than yea...in hs..its important...but if its just hotties in general...then i wouldn't quite say social proof is everyhing. But to make it easy, just say hi to tons of people. Ask about them and what not. If its a jock, ask them about work out routines? If its a prep, ask them where they get their clothes from. The more u talk to them, the more u'll get social proof. Its not hard to do for that setting. Just talk to all kinds of people and wa lla. Ur def known in the school.
if a lame dork would have asked me about workout routines when i was a varsity stud in high school i would have hung him upside down in the young hors bathroom :kick: i am serious. cool kids don't mix with clowns like you folks.DonJoseCantosie said:
why do you think american high school movies are so cool with the foreigners? it scares the hell out of them! nobody wants to be my ***** for four years. nobody! i don't know why americans had saddam killed. that was the easy way out. you want pain and torture? it isn't an iraqi prison (even with demented lesbo american guards). it is four years of hoping that the cool kids (like me
) won't laugh at you. it is having the teacher buddy up to a guy like me while the same teacher (america's heroes ) make fun of the quiet kid who sits in the back. damn, i wish i could go back for four more years. i think i will go cradle my old football. i might sleep with it
and if you think what i just typed was bull**** i dare you to think back to those glorious four years of high school.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJoseCantosie
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Just by this reply u have here, u don't seem like one of those cool guy at all. No joke. Jocks are mad glad to be asked of work out routines, it gives them a feeling of Accomplishment that they're helping out a fellow man with expertise. Only a few jocks are straight up idiots as ur mentioning them to be. If u fit in this category, congrats. I asked a few when i was a freshman in HS, starting out and they were more than happy to show me. People aren't as rotten as ur implying. Maybe my high school wasn't one of those bad ones.aldaris said:if a lame dork would have asked me about workout routines when i was a varsity stud in high school i would have hung him upside down in the young hors bathroom :kick: i am serious. cool kids don't mix with clowns like you folks.
why do you think american high school movies are so cool with the foreigners? it scares the hell out of them! nobody wants to be my ***** for four years. nobody! i don't know why americans had saddam killed. that was the easy way out. you want pain and torture? it isn't an iraqi prison (even with demented lesbo american guards). it is four years of hoping that the cool kids (like me
damn, i wish i could go back for four more years. i think i will go cradle my old football. i might sleep with it
and if you think what i just typed was bull**** i dare you to think back to those glorious four years of high school.
Also, i was a "geek" in high school but the popular/preps/jocks were still cool with me(maybe i wasn't considered a nerd in their eyes, not sure eventho i wore glasses and was part of anime club). Hell, to be honest...one of the popular girls actually had interest in me...i was just too dumb/never thought it was possible to consider it true.
And about Krazyboy99..i know him personally, he is a freshman in college. Get ur facts right.
War Against Betaism
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In high school if you have the confidence just to go up to a girl then that is all you need. One of my friends is an afc and went up to this HB9 on high school standards and she gave him her number. She was telling me later on how "Yeah he had the balls to go up to me so I'm like this guy is different and gave him my number."
He didn't exactly hook up with her, because she found out he was an afc, but initially she was impressed with his confidence to approach her. Approaching a woman is all about standing out; in high school, guys are still scared sh1tless about going up to women. Just by going up to them is standing out. Most of these guys usually grow out of their shells and actually do approach the women AFTER high school, and that's when you need mystery method.
He didn't exactly hook up with her, because she found out he was an afc, but initially she was impressed with his confidence to approach her. Approaching a woman is all about standing out; in high school, guys are still scared sh1tless about going up to women. Just by going up to them is standing out. Most of these guys usually grow out of their shells and actually do approach the women AFTER high school, and that's when you need mystery method.
DonJoseCantosie
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Yea man, i definitely agree here. This is what i truly believe as well....just that if some guys want the easy way out, they try to get much more social status(eventho its unneeded work). Too many people believe u had to have social status in High School because its what they remember and was common. Did they even try to approach a girl directly in HS? We can make assumptions but from my personal experience of going up to high school girls and having a babyface(i look around 17-18 facewise)...that they were melted and dazzled.
But Mystery Method, u prolly wouldn't even need to use even after HS. Its just one method, there are a ton others. The best ones imo are where u can be more natural.
But Mystery Method, u prolly wouldn't even need to use even after HS. Its just one method, there are a ton others. The best ones imo are where u can be more natural.
Alphamale1821
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Trust me from someone who knows, high school is all about knowing the right people aka social proof. I was the "white boy" in high school because i dressed in Abercombie and Hco. But i didn't care i know what i wanted and i wasn't afraid to stand out. Looking back it was a different game, very simple and fun. Dress cool, be funny, make friends but above all have fun.
I actually didn't realize how "made" i had it in high school until i left. The best parties, with my friends, the upperclassmen and the hottest chicks. Year 007 went out with a BANG BANG BABY!!!!
I actually didn't realize how "made" i had it in high school until i left. The best parties, with my friends, the upperclassmen and the hottest chicks. Year 007 went out with a BANG BANG BABY!!!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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None of the guys I know would have to brag on an internet fourm about being a varsity star...aldaris said:if a lame dork would have asked me about workout routines when i was a varsity stud in high school i would have hung him upside down in the young hors bathroom :kick: i am serious. cool kids don't mix with clowns like you folks.
why do you think american high school movies are so cool with the foreigners? it scares the hell out of them! nobody wants to be my ***** for four years. nobody! i don't know why americans had saddam killed. that was the easy way out. you want pain and torture? it isn't an iraqi prison (even with demented lesbo american guards). it is four years of hoping that the cool kids (like me
damn, i wish i could go back for four more years. i think i will go cradle my old football. i might sleep with it
and if you think what i just typed was bull**** i dare you to think back to those glorious four years of high school.
and please get rid of that name! you are 100% american! geez, your parents couldn't make it back in the old country. be proud of living in a country with the fattest teen girls on the planet as well as a country that proudly boasts of 1 in 4 teen girls as having a std.DJVladdy said:
i even posted a picture on here of me scoring a touchdown. what more must i do to prove myself?
none of you are willing to admit that american high school life is all about being part of the cool crowd. being and outsider is hell on earth in high school. if you are part of the cool crowd you rock. the rest of you end up bitter and angry.