"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mystery is NOT who you think he is!!!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kp3ehac-EoQ

Start at the 3:00 minute mark.

What I see in THIS candid video of Mystery, talking about what to tell a girl when she says "buy me a drink", and other things......what I see is a badass, and not some nerdy magic-wielding pickup artist.

just LISTEN and LOOK at the way Mystery gives examples on how to talk to women, and also LISTEN to how he is talking in general.........his attitude is a complete "I am better than you, I don't give a fvck" attitude.........none of this gay robotic PUA crap that he is portrayed to look like.

He is pretty much an a$$hole......take notes!!!

I especially like the tone and bad boyish response of his to "can you buy me a beer?", he says in a really a$$hole-like don juan way "what, are you fvcking broke?"

also love when he says "Tell me something....(pulls out money)....who's fvcking money is this?? It's my money, go buy your own fvcking beer"..................I am telling you guys, this is bad azz jerk behavior at its best, and I feel that this is the REAL Mystery who gets tons and tons of girls.

THis is the first video I have seen of Mystery being REAL and not the canned magic-man that he is always portrayed as..........Mystery is clearly a bad-azz jerk when the cameras are off of him, and it's no wonder he has had so much success with women that he pretty much initiated this PUA movement.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rescue Mission said:
He is pretty much an a$$hole......take notes!!
this is not new.... being an assh*ole is what give you plenty of options to get laid... but please do not show youre an assh*le......
 

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Once and for all, Mystery is legit. Anyone here that says he's not is stupid. Again, he has "evidence" hmm. Lots and lots of evidence. Let anyone here who say's that Mystery is a douch, post up some fr vids and pics of yourself outdoing him, or buzz off.

Age old stupid argument that needs to be laid to rest.
 
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Mistic said:
Once and for all, Mystery is legit. Anyone here that says he's not is stupid. Again, he has "evidence" hmm. Lots and lots of evidence. Let anyone here who say's that Mystery is a douch, post up some fr vids and pics of yourself outdoing him, or buzz off.

Age old stupid argument that needs to be laid to rest.

Ive never seen this side of mystery......I mean he sounds like a totally cool trash-talking guy.........I feel that THIS helps him get pvssy more than any of the magic trick bs that he keeps being portrayed as on video and tv........this youtube clip shows him raw and uncensored, and the true self-loving pvssy-getting jerk really shines through!!

like I said, anyone who needs a reality check, TAKE NOTES
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Isn't that Tyler Durden himself who starts talking from the audience at 4:00?
 

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The only problem with Mystery is,he's spent a life doing this. Great if you can make a living at it,but he has also had emotional breakdowns because his love life collapsed[talking full blown in the MD's Being medicated][hell, I didn't do that during or after my divorce.when she took my life with the boys to half time,200K from my wallet etc.] Women are TOO important to his life
 

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Listen to yourself. You pretend like you know Mystery while all you've seen from him is on camera. How the f*ck can you judge somebody on the basis of video's? Good lord.
 

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J. Darko said:
Listen to yourself. You pretend like you know Mystery while all you've seen from him is on camera. How the f*ck can you judge somebody on the basis of video's? Good lord.
I can look at a picture of someone and tell you if they are good at getting women. It's just how you hold yourself and what kind of look you have in your eye.

How hhe does in and ltr is another story. Thats the part we dont see. The fact that took guys in to the field and did live demonstrations is proof enough.
 

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Even you can be wrong sometimes. Besides, those live demonstrations don't demonstrate anything. He talks to some random girl in the street. So what? Unless you're a complete retard or you meet people in a bad mood, of course they are going to talk bac. The girls may give him their phone number. So what? Maybe they never talk to eachother again. Or even worse. The conversations might be staged.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So what? He can pick up girls. Regardless of attitude, everybody knows that.

But do his methods work for YOU?
This is where the beef is at.
 

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MODS STOP DELETING MY POSTS............

It's all scripted.........mystery has been a great performer, especially on camera
 

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Huffman said:
So what? He can pick up girls. Regardless of attitude, everybody knows that.

But do his methods work for YOU?
This is where the beef is at.
No nobody knows that, especially not you. You never seen him in real life, you never saw him taking a girl to his bedroom with your own eyes. You're just a believer of some story, just like there are people who believe in God because the bible says so and because others say he exists. You might as well believe in Santa Claus. You don't have any proof, you know nothing. In the meantime, he's making a lot of money. Because that's who he really is. Just a clever salesman who wants your money. Not a close friend that actually cares about you or cares wether his stuff works or not.
 

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J. Darko said:
No nobody knows that, especially not you. You never seen him in real life, you never saw him taking a girl to his bedroom with your own eyes. You're just a believer of some story, just like there are people who believe in God because the bible says so and because others say he exists. You might as well believe in Santa Claus. You don't have any proof, you know nothing. In the meantime, he's making a lot of money. Because that's who he really is. Just a clever salesman who wants your money. Not a close friend that actually cares about you or cares wether his stuff works or not.
Whoa, what's your problem? In fact I've never seen any Mystery video, but you could read on this forum about how he is so rude and awesome and blah. Also I've always been against the LOL JUST BE A NASTY ******* mentality.

I do however acknowledge that it can work in the short term. Or do you seriously believe that someone who has been infamous for picking up girls (for whatever reason) hasn't gotten even a single one? I would say you're bitter, because any idiot can get laid with a bit of luck.

So if you read my post again, I said that it's not important if HE can or cannot pickup girls. It is more important whether people try to follow his "method" and think it will help them! Some claim yes, some claim no. It's certainly not my style. I'm just amazed how people continue insulting each other here for the sake of this monkey.
 

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I've got nothing against PU stuff, some of it is golden, but PU is for Picking UP.

You wont find how to keep a girl interested or how to act when you've found a girl you actually want to 'date'.

PU is fine if you want to fuc* about, but when it comes to relationship type stuff, it seriously falls short.

That is where forums like this come in, it advises guys what to do in a relationship.

For example a PUA may be great at pulling girls, but that guy could also be totally fuc*ing poor in filtering out the girls that are worth sticking with.

I dont mind mystery, but a guy who 'dates' strippers is not a guy I'd take relationship advice from, or a guy i'd be lining up to find out how to keep my girl interested, there are far better resources for that.

Yeh great in finding girls, but thats the easy part - the hard part is making them worship the ground you walk on - PUA to me is the infant stage, anyone can PU chicks with a bit of training and alot of balls - But alot of guys dont know how to control a relationship and have the women worship the ground you walk on and know what to look out for in terms of dating a girl who is worth sticking around with.

IoI and all that stuff, wont keep your girl wet and wanting to suc* your coc* 6 months in, whilst at the same time making you hot meals and treating you like a king.

Hence why PUA like this and whole crew more or less have got a history of relationship Fuc*ups, following them like a train wreck.

Mystery should be part of a ****tail, an ingrediant added to other's like Doc Love for example and even David D - PUA to me is the first stage, the easy part -
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I especially like the tone and bad boyish response of his to "can you buy me a beer?", he says in a really a$$hole-like don juan way "what, are you fvcking broke?"

also love when he says "Tell me something....(pulls out money)....who's fvcking money is this?? It's my money, go buy your own fvcking beer
All this tells me is that he is cheap.

Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't be buying drinks for random girls either, but just because talk some sh!t to a camera doesn't mean you're a badass.
No disrespect to Mystery though. I'm sure he's had his successes and is a pioneer of sorts, but I wouldn't want to model myself after him.

For example a PUA may be great at pulling girls, but that guy could also be totally fuc*ing poor in filtering out the girls that are worth sticking with.

I dont mind mystery, but a guy who 'dates' strippers is not a guy I'd take relationship advice from
Yeah, that's my problem with pickup game. Most of it seems aimed toward picking up low quality women. Which honestly, shouldn't be that much of a challenge in the first place.

I think most girls will give you a chance if you present yourself correctly. But keeping them, getting them really into you, that's the real trick.
 

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jonwon said:
Mystery should be part of a ****tail, an ingrediant added to other's like Doc Love for example and even David D - PUA to me is the first stage, the easy part -
THIS!

add doc love and the PU stuff,

add going to the gym, good style etc... you will be golden
 
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