"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am in somewhat of a situation right now. last week we had a dance at my school, and i was a little messed up when i came (it was either really powerful or i timed it wrong, cause i thought the effect would of worn off by then). so this girl asks me to dance. she was new so i didnt care much about what i said. out of the blue she asks me if i like any one, and im so blind sided and still messed up that i say " ya, ( inset name)" again, she was kinda new so i presumed that she wouldnt know thw girl. i was wrong. she goes
" you mean ( insert girl i likes last name)" after i got her to promise not to tell, but she kinda walked off in the direction of where the girl i told her i liked was.

im pretty sure she ratted me out, cause i asked another gitl today how she liked the dance and she said it was " interesting " i asked why and she shot out some thing really fast and quiet the sounded like it had my marks name. so basicaly, my mystery is blown, and im wondering: how much of an impact does mystery make and how badly am i hurt here?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So she said that you like like her or just that you like her? :rolleyes: You'll live.;)
 
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im not that worried, cause im not exactly obsessed with her, but i wouldnt of made this if it was just me liking her as a friend
 
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Judging by how immature they are…and you saying the girl that said that ratted you out is new then I wouldn’t care really……but if the girl is new and it bothers you so much then you could just say she doesn’t know what she’s talking about. I don’t recommend it…because what the girl did(if she did) work for the good as it could for the bad….it really depends on the way you act around the girl you do like. If she thinks you like her….and then you act indifferent then shell get confused and might want your attention.(especially in girls that immature)

My advice….forget them both and find yourself something less imature. Forget the girl that told evryone for being an ideot and forget the girl you like if she believes the girl, and it somehow affects her attitude towards you.

Oh and this is my personal advice so the people that would like to flame it….go ahead.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thanks for the advice. and the girl im going for is mature beyond her age, its just this one girl who is really immature.
 
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