"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mystery & Anti-Dump.

Ciel

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Approached a girl last week. Hot belgian. Lets call her HB blue eyes. Amazing connection etc. As I was leaving she actually said "wow this is the nicest way a guy's ever approached me before".

Called her today, arranged a date, text her the details just now.

She text me "By the way Ciel, where you from?"

Do I reply, or do I follow in the footsteps of anti dump and say "You'll find out if I keep you around long enough. :p for now just assume japan or hawaii".

This is all considering there hasn't even been the first date yet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ease

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You should follow the golden rule of all things: #dont **** things up.

If things are going good, why would you try too hard and over-game?

A joke is good once in a while, but being normal is important too. It's called serious game. You do it when things are going as planned.

'ask me during our date' is a good response.
 

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Lmao reading your post actually made me laugh at myself in a "I can't believe you almost did that" way.

Thanks a lot pal.
 

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Ease said:
You should follow the golden rule of all things: #dont **** things up.

If things are going good, why would you try too hard and over-game?

A joke is good once in a while, but being normal is important too. It's called serious game. You do it when things are going as planned.

'ask me during our date' is a good response.
^ THIS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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