"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mysterious New Year's Eve Call!

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DJ_Trainee_10

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Hey, Happy New Years.

On December 31 a girl called my house, before I left to go to a party.

She said "Hey, Happy New Years and jokingly said I LOVE YOU!."

I didn't know what to say but managed to say, "Uh, I love you too?" in a confused voice.

She then said "Bye." and giggled. -Klunk- and dial tone.

"Who was it?" I asked myself.
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So its January 2 and I'm at school, yes school, and I can't place who it is. However maybe the girl wasn't here today, after all, half the student body didn't show up on this federal holiday.

So what's your take on this and how can I go about finding out who called me? I don't want to randomly go up to girls I know and say "Hey, do call me on New Year's Eve?"

Then once I find out who it is, how can I use this to my advantage like a true DJ? (if the girl is good looking :))

Edit: Her name and # on the Caller ID was Private.

Trainee 10
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your not a police officer if she didint tell you her name that can mean one of two things.
1) It was a joke/prank
2) She has no confidence in which case shes not worth tracking down.......................so forget about it
 
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Originally posted by DJ_Trainee_10 I don't want to randomly go up to girls I know and say "Hey, do call me on New Year's Eve?"
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Why not? You will get a lot of practice if you approach girls. But ask the ones that you don't know.
 
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