"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mysteries of Sexual Energy

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I've had some seemingly interesting 'sexual' experiences over the past year. I asked a few of my friends if they've ever experienced the following scenario... but none had.

So perhaps there are others out there who've had similar experiences, and can give me your feedback or opinions on it...

Now, maybe this will sound bizarre -- or even obvious to some -- but I find I get these very strange slow erections in the presence of certain women. I find it difficult to explain because it's not at all like when you see a hot babe and your thoughts go into sex mode, then you get a quick, solid erection.

No. This is much, much different.

It's as if when I come into their 'aura' or sexual energy, it floods my body without me being aware of it at first. But since the impulse takes me by surprise because I wasn't even thinking about sex until I notice myself getting an erection, it baffles me.

A while back, I was working at a call center -- and this happened several times too. You know how you can get that feeling that someone's looking at you, only to turn and lock eyes with someone?

Unexplainable, it seems. But we all know it, right?

Well, this would happen with a chick while we were working; talking on the phone. I'd get that feeling, turn, make eye contact with her. Then, I'd slowly get an erection. We're not talking a few split-seconds here. It takes more like 10. Maybe even 15.

The thing is I wasn't looking at her in a lustful way. There were no sexual thoughts in my mind. That's what gets me. Instead, I looked with curiosity. "She's looking," I thought, "so I'll just keep looking and see what happens."

Again, today. I've been working with this chick. And a few times as I got into close proximity with her, though my thoughts were non-sexual as I was showing her how to do something, it happened, slowly.

Yet another time, I made eye contact with an ex-girlfriend unexpectedly in a bar. And though I wasn't even thinking sexual thoughts, it just 'charged up'.

And there are countless other times.

I don't know if this is coming off as a joke... all this 'weird' erection talk. But I am serious. I'm curious about it.

Is this the power of sexual energy? In a different 'plane' than purely physical?

Have you experienced anything sounding like this? If so, any explanations?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Has nothing to do with energy - You are 16!!!
 

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Hormonally your body is metamorphosizing and adjusting to an influx of various energies. Yes, to answer your question, there most certainly is a sexual energy.

Wilhelm Reich's work on Orgone energy is pretty powerful and convincing:

Orgone energy

Also, Tantrics and sex Magickians have known that energies can be called upon to manipulate our realities with various techniques and meditative states of consciousness. Perhaps this particular girl is going through the same hormonal influx which would explain why you aren't physically attracted to her but realize that there are subliminal messages sent from us and to us through the senses which we aren't aware of on the surface. Scent is extremely powerful, as well as, maintained eye contact.

Once you've learned to harness this Orgone energy (Also known as the Kundalini Serpent) you can gain a much more profound awareness of your spiritual and physical selves.

PM me for more in depth information brother.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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