"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shazbot man

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This girl I like is on vacation, and I chat with her via Myspace.

Myspace makes it feel so empty, but I was wondering if there was a anything specific I should say.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So you know this girl in real-life then but use myspace to communicate...

Well the first thing you need to do is find out if she has AIM, Yahoo, MSN, or any type of instant Messenger... If not, try and get her number. Personally, I don't think myspace is the place to keep in constant touch with people since it doesn't work as fast as IM.

Good luck with her dude.

Take care,

- Neon
 

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shazbot man said:
This girl I like is on vacation, and I chat with her via Myspace.

Myspace makes it feel so empty, but I was wondering if there was a anything specific I should say.
If you can contact her in person, do that. And then get her email or messenger name and you will be a-ok.
 

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If i were u i would talk to her on AIM, ICQ MSN, myspace kinda too weird and slow.. PLus getting her number would be awsome!
 

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Ask her if she wants to hang out. Shell give you her number if she does. Dont get her aim since you already have a way to contact her. You dont need to be having conversations with her online moreso than you do now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2 said:
You dont need to be having conversations with her online moreso than you do now.
Cosign, anything worth saying should be done in person or atleast with you talking TO her over the phone

In person you can kino her
 

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Yo... def. get her phone number.

If you could get in a few lil calls w. her while she's on vacation.
She'd unconciously link you to the entire experience of "vacation"
What better an anchor to set for yourself.

Also she'd probably love to share her experiences w. some1 that she knows.
Best of both worlds. The adventure of being away, and some peeps from home.
It would build total Rapport.

Oh ya... and tell her to send you a postcard.
That'll be something fun for her. Chikx love that kinda sh!t. Also it will put you in her thoughts. She'll be taking the time to pick a cool one out. She'll have to think of something cool to right, etc. So it would be another link into making you a person of value in her thoughts/life.

My 2 cents...........
 

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they probably cant "hangout" since you know, they met on vacation and might live far away from eachother and ****.

anyways

get her to send you nakeys :D
 

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dannowillbookem said:
they probably cant "hangout" since you know, they met on vacation and might live far away from eachother and ****.

anyways

get her to send you nakeys :D
They didnt meet on vacation, SHES on vacation.
 

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Thanx for all the great (and interesting) advice. I see her again on Monday, so I'll see if I can't get her number and take her out.
We talked more via Myspace, and I asked we exchanged AIMs.

I chatted with some of her friends, and they say she hasn't had a bf, so I should go for it. I'd say thats nice encouragement.

I'll let ya'll know how it goes. :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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From what I learned, myspace comments don't count. It teases you into thinking a girl is into you, only to have her ignore you if you see her in person and try to say hi or something to her. Use aim to talk to her and work your way up to her number.
but I was wondering if there was a anything specific I should say.
Dude, just keep it simple,if she went someplace warm, ask her if shes getting a sexy tan and you cant wait to see it, to show your intrested in her.
 
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