"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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crossboss

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What is a good opener for a message? I haven't found one, that is very successful. Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Van_The_Man

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Depends, do you know this girl or is she someone you've never met?

You could try and ask her opinion on something, to get her intersted and responding back, and then take it from there.
 

Iceberg

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You could be like, "Hey baby. Why don't you get off the myspace and come over to myPLACE."

You're welcome.
 

crossboss

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Thanks,

I'll try and ask an opinion, or something, if it says she ski's I could ask if she has been to Park City or something. Find common interests.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Scars

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I have a better success rate when I open them through a bulletin. It may take a couple days especially if they don't update constantly, but wait until that right one comes, you will know it. Slip in your C+F line or what have you. If you say a clever statement or something, you're almost always guaranteed a reply. Whether it's a picture comment or what not. It works a lot better than the standard "hey, whats up?" routine.
 

crossboss

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I'll

Give you guy's a progress report, when time goes on.
 

omega05

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one that worked for me a good number of times
"excuse me miss can i borrow you? i promise to give you back"
 
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There will not be a message that works for you if you are anything short of good looking on your pics - thats the law of myspace, sorry to break it to ya.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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