"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, not really. There is a program they can upload to findout where EVERY visitor to there profile is from. You will just pop up as a dot on the globe pinpointing your location/country but that's if she gets the program. Other than that, she has a counter on her profile for the number of hits her page gets, as do you.
 
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Not unless they have a tracker. Those are usually BS, and myspace does everything in its power to defend against trackers.
 
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I have a web hosting plan. I put some custom graphics on my myspace page that were hosted on my web server. Everytime someone visits my page, it makes an http request to my server to pull the background image I put up. I noticed after browsing my server stats that it reveals the IP address of everyone who visited my page because their visit caused the server to have to serve them a graphic. If you know someone's IP address, you will know exactly when they visited, how many times they clicked on your page and all kinds of sh*t. You can plug the IP address into a mapping program and see where the click came from, their ISP, what browser they were using, whether it was Mac or PC. Crazy. But if you don't know the person's IP, it might not help much. But if that person sends you emails regularly, their IP address can be found in the email headers and if that IP matches up with the person that's been visiting your myspace, well there you go. It can be quite interesting. I've seen some friends of my mine visit my page numerous times a day, some of them dudes, making me wonder if they are gay or something.

Yeah, I'm geeking out here.
 
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And let's not forget referral information. If you were searching for a girl and clicked on the link to her profile, not only would you show up but she could know you were using her name as keywords in your search. Just turn off your images beforehand, so any hit counters won't load, or never to directly click on a link but rather copy the URL and open in a new browser tab, to eliminate any referral information.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deep Dish said:
And let's not forget referral information. If you were searching for a girl and clicked on the link to her profile, not only would you show up but she could know you were using her name as keywords in your search. Just turn off your images beforehand, so any hit counters won't load.
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Ah yeah, forgot about that one. True. Though very few girls are that tech saavy.
 
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With all the traffic her profile probably already receives from errant visitors and idiotic thugs hitting on her, I highly doubt she would notice the signal from all the noise.

On the other hand, a few months ago there was a girl I know whose account was deleted, for who knows why. When I noticed she was off my list, which was probably about two weeks after the deletion, I dug around and found she created a new account. The very next day I received an add friend request from her. The timing was probably a coincidence but I couldn't help to wonder "Wow, did she actually check referrals?" She is a smart cookie.

If you ever want to toy someone with a mindf*ck, use an anonymous proxy server (which are available for free). You can mask your true IP and appear like you're coming from Japan, Germany, or France for instance.
 
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Deep Dish said:
With all the traffic her profile probably already receives from errant visitors and idiotic thugs hitting on her, I highly doubt she would notice the signal from all the noise.

On the other hand, a few months ago there was a girl I know whose account was deleted, for who knows why. When I noticed she was off my list, which was probably about two weeks after the deletion, I dug around and found she created a new account. The very next day I received an add friend request from her. The timing was probably a coincidence but I couldn't help to wonder "Wow, did she actually check referrals?" She is a smart cookie.

If you ever want to toy someone with a mindf*ck, use an anonymous proxy server (which are available for free). You can mask your true IP and appear like you're coming from Japan, Germany, or France for instance.
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Do I just download those?
Can they be switched on and off and are there any disadvantages to using them?
 
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You can find lists of anonymous proxy server IP addresses and you simply then configure your web browser to use the proxy address, then unconfigure it when you're done. If you use Internet Explorer, the proxy settings would be found under Tools > Internet Options > Connections > LAN Settings. If my memory serves right, I believe there are also websites you can visit in which you browse in a new window, without needing to change your settings. In either case, no extra software is needed.

There are two disadvantages: 1) It is hard to find a good proxy IP address. It's easy to find lists but the addresses are often non-responsive. You may have to try twenty before finding one which works. 2) The surfing is slower than normal, due to congestion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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slaog said:
I'm just wondering if you check somebody's MySpace do they know somebody was looking in? Does your IP address show up?


Today I found my girlfriends. She told me before she was on it but I only looked today but I don't want to be caught checking it out.
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Curious...why are you checking your girls MySpace?
 
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Your_Royal_Flyness said:
Curious...why are you checking your girls MySpace?
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God forbid if he wants to check out her myspace profile. He must be REALLY jealous, or better yet insecure......

My advice to Royal Flyness: you aren't really that fly. Make that your first and last post here please.
 
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