So i was just wondering if u talk to a girl on myspace and u talk to her a bit, wat is a good way of talking to her in person if u go to the same school and pass by her everyday but make minimal eye contact and u want to start talking to her but u let a couple months pass, what would be a good dj way to start talking to her. i also want to meet one of her friends and she is always in a group.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Myspace
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
guayaballer
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the same way u approach every other girl. say Hi or Hello if you prefer
BrokenLeftWing
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when you see her, just go right up to her and talk to her like you've been doing on myspace.
What I've done is end or 'have to leave' in the middle of a conversation, then simply just continue when you see her the next day.
Especially if its a more nonsensical conversation, just say something to her to remind her about it, then it will go on from there.
Especially if its a more nonsensical conversation, just say something to her to remind her about it, then it will go on from there.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
From my experience.. talking to a girl on myspace before actually talking face to face has never worked for me.. they all pulled the LJBF card on me. But maybe it's just me.
Don't worry about her not remembering you.. go up to her and talk to her like you do myspace, and just assume she does know who you are. If she is lost or asks who you are, simply teller her you're myspace boy!
But tbh, it seems like you waited to long. I see a LJBF in the future.. which isnt neccesarily a bad thing. I'm assuming she is hott. So she must have hott friends.. ++ social proof.
Don't worry about her not remembering you.. go up to her and talk to her like you do myspace, and just assume she does know who you are. If she is lost or asks who you are, simply teller her you're myspace boy!
But tbh, it seems like you waited to long. I see a LJBF in the future.. which isnt neccesarily a bad thing. I'm assuming she is hott. So she must have hott friends.. ++ social proof.
GaryUranga
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Ive got girls on myspace who didnt just ljbf me so its not like the situation is screwedfrom the begining
Skilla_Staz
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There are about 50 threads at least relating to myspace. In fact, I've even posted a tip type post about it. Use the search button, please. You'll get plenty of responses from those articles and threads.