So i was just wondering if u talk to a girl on myspace and u talk to her a bit, wat is a good way of talking to her in person if u go to the same school and pass by her everyday but make minimal eye contact and u want to start talking to her but u let a couple months pass, what would be a good dj way to start talking to her. i also want to meet one of her friends and she is always in a group.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
guayaballer
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the same way u approach every other girl. say Hi or Hello if you prefer
BrokenLeftWing
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when you see her, just go right up to her and talk to her like you've been doing on myspace.
What I've done is end or 'have to leave' in the middle of a conversation, then simply just continue when you see her the next day.
Especially if its a more nonsensical conversation, just say something to her to remind her about it, then it will go on from there.
Especially if its a more nonsensical conversation, just say something to her to remind her about it, then it will go on from there.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
From my experience.. talking to a girl on myspace before actually talking face to face has never worked for me.. they all pulled the LJBF card on me. But maybe it's just me.
Don't worry about her not remembering you.. go up to her and talk to her like you do myspace, and just assume she does know who you are. If she is lost or asks who you are, simply teller her you're myspace boy!
But tbh, it seems like you waited to long. I see a LJBF in the future.. which isnt neccesarily a bad thing. I'm assuming she is hott. So she must have hott friends.. ++ social proof.
Don't worry about her not remembering you.. go up to her and talk to her like you do myspace, and just assume she does know who you are. If she is lost or asks who you are, simply teller her you're myspace boy!
But tbh, it seems like you waited to long. I see a LJBF in the future.. which isnt neccesarily a bad thing. I'm assuming she is hott. So she must have hott friends.. ++ social proof.
GaryUranga
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Ive got girls on myspace who didnt just ljbf me so its not like the situation is screwedfrom the begining
Skilla_Staz
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There are about 50 threads at least relating to myspace. In fact, I've even posted a tip type post about it. Use the search button, please. You'll get plenty of responses from those articles and threads.