"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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myspace vs facebook

speakeasy

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When I first logged onto myspace a couple years ago, I would get random girls saying hi fairly often. These days I get none and hardly anyone even clicks on my profile. I'm wondering if you guys have noticed the same. Has everyone moved over to facebook? I'm wondering if myspace is going the route of friendster.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Librarian

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One reason for the increase in private profiles is that people have begun spying on them. Businesses and colleges will actually try to find people on Myspace/facebook and use that information while considering people for hiring/acceptance. I actually had a friend who was straight out asked during an interview if she had a myspace account.
 

Obsidian

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most of those "girls" saying hi to you were just spam programs, and Tom recently won a lawsuit against them
 

speakeasy

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Obsidian said:
most of those "girls" saying hi to you were just spam programs, and Tom recently won a lawsuit against them
No, I'm not talking about spam bots posed as girls! I'm saying I used to get contacted by random girls who found my profile interesting, some of them I actually met up with in real life. But for some reason, real girls(not spambots) never contact me anymore. Weird. That's why I'm just wondering if everyone has moved over to facebook and which one is better for meeting girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ValleyDJing

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The Librarian said:
One reason for the increase in private profiles is that people have begun spying on them. Businesses and colleges will actually try to find people on Myspace/facebook and use that information while considering people for hiring/acceptance. I actually had a friend who was straight out asked during an interview if she had a myspace account.

Yep. A quick word of advice to future myspace users, set up several different email accounts and use one for your myspace and when you fill out applications, give them a different email. Makes it just that much tougher for them to look you up and spy on you. I set my profile to private a long time ago cause I got tired of my mom using it to keep tabs on me, finding out what I was doing, who I was hanging out with, etc.
 
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they are both the same thing, only girls are sketched out too easy on facebook, and they are more open to talking to random guys on myspace
 
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