myspace to phone to aaahhhhhh!!!!!!

[caliman]

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I saw a pic on a 18yr old hb. 6.7 on myspace and she has a pic of her sticking her toungue out (up close pic)

here is the myspace messages (after that is my phone call)


From:HB6.7
Date: Nov 20 2006 10:56 AM
well ur hella so certain that im going to fall in love with you..i find that funny its cute..but last night i hella got off and yea so i didnt get your message untill what right know so yea sorry about that...well you can call me if you want to talk my # is xxxx alright oh by the way my name is HB6.7..=)

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: centralcali
Date: Nov 19 2006 11:22 PM



uh uh thats what all the girls say. lol jk we seem very silmilar. i love certain sports. I love to ride motorcyles, basketball, i like to go to concerts, i looooooveee clubbing. lol i could dance for hours. yesterday my friend grabbed a bouncers ass (as a joke) and told the bouncer he is cute. the bouncer hit my friend in the shoulder. after my friend explained it was a joke, the bouncer laughed. i have to leave in about 20 minutes, i have to meet a friend. in the meantime give me a call (right now) and we'll chat. my cell number is xxxxxxx. (you could *67 if u like). no falling in love with me though. lol jp

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB6.7
Date: Nov 19 2006 11:09 PM


ok they were not pick up lines just to let you know....lol...but yea i like to play sports and dance..i love to dance go clubs and hang out with my friends...what about you?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: centralcali
Date: Nov 19 2006 11:06 PM


stumbled across your pic and could not help but laugh. btw those pick up lines u used on me won't work. lol jk
yesterday some girl asked me for the time and then said if she could have my number. 3 girls this week did something like that on me.

besides being a bad girl!, what else do u like to do for fun?
hmmm... how would you describe your persoanlity?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB6.7
Date: Nov 19 2006 10:58 PM


well this is hella random....but ok...

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: centralcali
Date: Nov 19 2006 10:55 PM


omg u are such a bad girl putting up this pic. my ex gf's gave me this face (before you know). lol people call this face the "money shot" lol






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PHONE CALL at 9:35 pm Nov. 20, 2006
phone rings about 10 seconds before she picks up

CC: Hey whats up this is XXXXX (my myspace name name) my real name is (give name). how are you..
Hb6.7: makes noise but not talk. lng silence (around seconds).she then says hi.
CC: on your profile you mentioned you like to party. you party a lot (said something like that)?
Hb6.7: Yea (she is not in state, from the vibe im getting i think she has her friend on hold, not sure)
CC: I love party's last week i threw a party at my place and it was awesome. Lots of people were there. One girl got so drunk she tried to sit down on my couch and she fell on her ass and missed the couch.
Hb6.7: Should of invited me (said in a rather low voice, not gettting her in state, no real vibe still)
CC. awwww u wern't there u poor thing! [she did not pick up the humor in this]
hb6.7: what did you say. You talk fast, yoy mumbled.
CC: I don't recall exactly, i believe i said awwww u wern't there u poor thing! somrthing like that i was teasing/joking [IM talking on the phone in state like a pua tells a story to a girl at a club, e.g. im talking like someone telling someone about a fight that just happend outside, like telling someone mystery's fight outside story with enthusiam, im talking like that. Im talk naturally a little fast can't really help it, when i do slow down i end up quickly talking at my normal fast speed]
hb6.7: are u on something. your like mumbling.
CC: No. I naturally talk a little fast, im like that (said a matter of factly, did not go into further explaining]. tell me more about yourself. how would you describe your personality.
hb6.7: Can you call me back
CC: I'll call you back a little later. bye.
hb.6.7: bye



10:15 PM (about 40 min later) I CALL BACK AT THIS TIME

I get message machine. aagghhhh fu&* Btw, On this phone message i leave, I talk in a slower voice and say it a matter of factly. HERE IS the message [not in eact words but something like this]:

"Hi this is CC (centralcali), im calling you back. im leaving my friends right now. give me a call back sometime soon. 4 o' clock is a good time tomorrow to call. talk to you later. bye"

nOTE: When i first do happen to get a myspace girl on the phone and in state i will talk to her for min. on avg. before going for meet. it seems like they need more comfort time (on phone before meet)


Notes
-Usually when people talk about me talking fast i usually explain real quick my mom talks super fast and i got talking fast from her, but i only talk a little fast.

-I think i called her when she was talking to her friend and she was interested in getting back to her freind. thats the vibe i got.

ideas
Maybe i should not start off the conversation when im in state maybe i should start off talking in a low seductive voice and then proceed to dhv story. the problem with this is i will end up too qucikly talking in my normal voice. I really can't help this. even when im teaching my students tell me to slow down sometimes. i try, but can't slow down for too long. Just not able to do it. Most get used to my voice speed however.


PUA ADVICE WELC0MED

How do u guys think of how i started out the conversation (remember she was not in state)?
any advice on my phone game? what i should of did? said? etc.


"We study history so we will not repeat ours and others mistakes" -centralcali

 

[nosmirk]

whole thing was a huge messy mistake?

 

[\O/]

I think you did an ok job with the messages. You got the number and she seemed interested. Only thing is that you seemed to be bragging. e.g when you said that 3 girls asked for your number the last week.. You shouldn't be qualifying yourself to her.

The phonecall was a catastrophe. You blew it by appearing too much of a try-hard. Talking too fast is a problem, and I believe it's something you should look into. You WILL appear extremely nervous and insecure even though you may not be. Slow down!! Practice makes perfect.. Even though you may forget sometimes, just be aware of the problem and do something about it. I used to mumble, but I don't anymore.

You need to make sure that your DHV stories don't come off as being braggy or try-hard. Just let the convo flow and don't try to force any particular topics like you were with partying.

I think you freaked this girl out, so I wouldn't give it anymore effort. Just take what you've learned and try again with another chick..

Good luck

 

[DonDan]

Who gives a fck?? Shes only a 6.7 like you said . omg.....

 

[Lost1]

What annoys me the most about this girl is her use of the word HELLA. First of all she puts it in when its not needed and its a bad word to begin with lol. I just wouldnt worrie about it. She's only a 6 or 7 right?

 

[mrRuckus]

ok they were not pick up lines just to let you know....lol...but yea i like to play sports and dance..i love to dance go clubs and hang out with my friends...what about you?

"ok i am just so..... wonderfully generic! lol! i'm a dime..... a dozen! lol!"

 

[Raikojo17]

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I saw a pic on a 18yr old hb. 6.7 on myspace and she has a pic of her sticking her toungue out (up close pic)

here is the myspace messages (after that is my phone call)


From:HB6.7
Date: Nov 20 2006 10:56 AM
well ur hella so certain that im going to fall in love with you..i find that funny its cute..but last night i hella got off and yea so i didnt get your message untill what right know so yea sorry about that...well you can call me if you want to talk my # is xxxx alright oh by the way my name is HB6.7..=)

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: centralcali
Date: Nov 19 2006 11:22 PM



uh uh thats what all the girls say. lol jk we seem very silmilar. i love certain sports. I love to ride motorcyles, basketball, i like to go to concerts, i looooooveee clubbing. lol i could dance for hours. yesterday my friend grabbed a bouncers ass (as a joke) and told the bouncer he is cute. the bouncer hit my friend in the shoulder. after my friend explained it was a joke, the bouncer laughed. i have to leave in about 20 minutes, i have to meet a friend. in the meantime give me a call (right now) and we'll chat. my cell number is xxxxxxx. (you could *67 if u like). no falling in love with me though. lol jp

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB6.7
Date: Nov 19 2006 11:09 PM


ok they were not pick up lines just to let you know....lol...but yea i like to play sports and dance..i love to dance go clubs and hang out with my friends...what about you?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: centralcali
Date: Nov 19 2006 11:06 PM


stumbled across your pic and could not help but laugh. btw those pick up lines u used on me won't work. lol jk
yesterday some girl asked me for the time and then said if she could have my number. 3 girls this week did something like that on me.

besides being a bad girl!, what else do u like to do for fun?
hmmm... how would you describe your persoanlity?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: HB6.7
Date: Nov 19 2006 10:58 PM


well this is hella random....but ok...

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: centralcali
Date: Nov 19 2006 10:55 PM


omg u are such a bad girl putting up this pic. my ex gf's gave me this face (before you know). lol people call this face the "money shot" lol






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PHONE CALL at 9:35 pm Nov. 20, 2006
phone rings about 10 seconds before she picks up

CC: Hey whats up this is XXXXX (my myspace name name) my real name is (give name). how are you..
Hb6.7: makes noise but not talk. lng silence (around seconds).she then says hi.
CC: on your profile you mentioned you like to party. you party a lot (said something like that)?
Hb6.7: Yea (she is not in state, from the vibe im getting i think she has her friend on hold, not sure)
CC: I love party's last week i threw a party at my place and it was awesome. Lots of people were there. One girl got so drunk she tried to sit down on my couch and she fell on her ass and missed the couch.
Hb6.7: Should of invited me (said in a rather low voice, not gettting her in state, no real vibe still)
CC. awwww u wern't there u poor thing! [she did not pick up the humor in this]
hb6.7: what did you say. You talk fast, yoy mumbled.
CC: I don't recall exactly, i believe i said awwww u wern't there u poor thing! somrthing like that i was teasing/joking [IM talking on the phone in state like a pua tells a story to a girl at a club, e.g. im talking like someone telling someone about a fight that just happend outside, like telling someone mystery's fight outside story with enthusiam, im talking like that. Im talk naturally a little fast can't really help it, when i do slow down i end up quickly talking at my normal fast speed]
hb6.7: are u on something. your like mumbling.
CC: No. I naturally talk a little fast, im like that (said a matter of factly, did not go into further explaining]. tell me more about yourself. how would you describe your personality.
hb6.7: Can you call me back
CC: I'll call you back a little later. bye.
hb.6.7: bye



10:15 PM (about 40 min later) I CALL BACK AT THIS TIME

I get message machine. aagghhhh fu&* Btw, On this phone message i leave, I talk in a slower voice and say it a matter of factly. HERE IS the message [not in eact words but something like this]:

"Hi this is CC (centralcali), im calling you back. im leaving my friends right now. give me a call back sometime soon. 4 o' clock is a good time tomorrow to call. talk to you later. bye"

nOTE: When i first do happen to get a myspace girl on the phone and in state i will talk to her for min. on avg. before going for meet. it seems like they need more comfort time (on phone before meet)


Notes
-Usually when people talk about me talking fast i usually explain real quick my mom talks super fast and i got talking fast from her, but i only talk a little fast.

-I think i called her when she was talking to her friend and she was interested in getting back to her freind. thats the vibe i got.

ideas
Maybe i should not start off the conversation when im in state maybe i should start off talking in a low seductive voice and then proceed to dhv story. the problem with this is i will end up too qucikly talking in my normal voice. I really can't help this. even when im teaching my students tell me to slow down sometimes. i try, but can't slow down for too long. Just not able to do it. Most get used to my voice speed however.


PUA ADVICE WELC0MED

How do u guys think of how i started out the conversation (remember she was not in state)?
any advice on my phone game? what i should of did? said? etc.


"We study history so we will not repeat ours and others mistakes" -centralcali

u did good on myspace, but not on the phone. if she sound's bored, then leave immediatly, and call back later. also never aska girl to call u back, unless ur ina relationship or she's into u, or she's the type that would call back, because it wont happen. keep the ball in ur court, man.

 

[caliman]

questions:

1. how do you guys normally start off a convoersation when you get a girl's number off myspace? do you intro. yourself, then go into a funny dhv story, etc. what is your guy's method.

2. how long do you talk (how many minutes) to a myspace girl before you ask for a meet? i usually will talk for 40 min before i siggest meet. i usalli call around 9:30 pm as well

3. Big question. when you start off a phone convoersation (with a myspace girl) should you start off talking slow and seductive (talking) and then when you get her into state do you talk a lil faster because your in state (i.e. you talk with enthuasim now instead of slow and seductive)? Or do you start off the Convoersation already in state (you talk in state right off the bat)?
I know you have to get a girl in state if you plan on meeting her (off myspace). the problem is if you start off the convo in state she will think your weird (your too enthuastic) or on something etc. which is a negative, but this can become overcome with plowing (funny dhv story's) , being unaffected by her comments, and continuing to be in state. If you start off the convo. slow and seductive i usally have a harder time getting her into state. i know if she is not in state then we will not meet. i have dilema on what to do on the phone sometimes.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

You talk too damn much man.

Wow.

Shes a 6.7? to me thats like a 4 or a 5. Not even worth my time really. Why worry so much?

 

[Raikojo17]

questions:

1. how do you guys normally start off a convoersation when you get a girl's number off myspace? do you intro. yourself, then go into a funny dhv story, etc. what is your guy's method.

2. how long do you talk (how many minutes) to a myspace girl before you ask for a meet? i usually will talk for 40 min before i siggest meet. i usalli call around 9:30 pm as well

3. Big question. when you start off a phone convoersation (with a myspace girl) should you start off talking slow and seductive (talking) and then when you get her into state do you talk a lil faster because your in state (i.e. you talk with enthuasim now instead of slow and seductive)? Or do you start off the Convoersation already in state (you talk in state right off the bat)?
I know you have to get a girl in state if you plan on meeting her (off myspace). the problem is if you start off the convo in state she will think your weird (your too enthuastic) or on something etc. which is a negative, but this can become overcome with plowing (funny dhv story's) , being unaffected by her comments, and continuing to be in state. If you start off the convo. slow and seductive i usally have a harder time getting her into state. i know if she is not in state then we will not meet. i have dilema on what to do on the phone sometimes.

1. they already kno who i am when i call, so no need to introduce. jus say ur name and ur from myspace

2.how ever long u want, it doesnt matter

3. wat the hell's a "state"? i feel ur overthinking and analyzing this. jus talk to her man. no need for all this seductive tone, funny story, word play crap. jus talk. if u got funny stories, tell them, but dont sit there thinking "ok should i tell a funny story or use my sexy voice?". no man, jus talk. i dont matter wat u say or wat voice u use. if she likes then she'll agree to meet with u. if not, then her lose. next.