"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MYSPACE - the good, the bad, and the REALLY BAD

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My professional analysis of myspace, after using it to constantly get sex, dates, and girlfriends from there for the last 2 years:

THE GOOD

- its very easy, lazy pimping, and as long as u tell the girl online everything she wants to hear, then you will get her #, and she'll wanna hang out with you. (example, if shes a party girl, mirror her and talk alot about partying and fun stuff. If she is a sweet romantic girl, be sweet and act like you are a really nice guy (trust me, do that and then be the suave player that you are when you meet her, the romantic nice guy thing is just BS where you are telling her what she wants to hear)

- if done right, you can pull 10 #s from different girls per night, just by sitting there for a couple of hours and typing alot. THis is like sarging, because the end result is the same - you got some #s

- contrary to popular belief of chumps who have no look using myspace, there ARE good looking girls that like meeting guys on myspace, you just gotta play your cards right (i have met at least a dozen girls that are an 8/10 or better)

- ive met about 4 girls that were very good LTR material, they were nice sweet and good looking, and the only reason it didnt work out is because i started being a jerk a few months in and i decided to dump them (but I am currently dating 2 girls right now that I have met off of myspace, and they are indeed great catched

- fear of rejection does not exist. There is no approach anxiety. Thus if you are really good on dates, but are really bad at approaching, then myspace is the PERFECT way to pick girls up


THE BAD


- lotsa flaking, but the way to fight this is to make plans with 3 different girls for the same night, and then if 2 of them cancel, you still will hve a date.......and at worst case scenario, YOU will have to flake on the other girls lol, which might just raise their interest level

- SOME are uglier in person than in pics - dont meet any girl if you think this is a possibility.

- you have to look at the very least cute in your pics, otherwise you have no chance

- alot of girls will not even reply to you, NO MATTER WHAT YOU WRITE. So you need to play the #'s game and keep it cool......out of every 20 messages you send, you will probably get only 1/2 of girls to even read your message, no matter what it is



THE REALLY REALLY BAD


if you are over 18, and u talk to a girl who is under 18, then u are seriously testing the water because it could be a cop and you might get arrested (very rare, but why take the chance???)

- you message a girl, and her crazy jealous AFC boyfriend reads it, and replies to you telling you he wants to kill you (lol just not a pleasant read, ive gotten a few of those)

-alot of time spent..........just trust me on this......you will feel like that you are spending too much time doing it just to get some azz

- you become addicted to the fact that it is so easy, which leads to the WORST of the really bad:


YOU STOP GOING OUT.

(at least in my case)

I now spend all of time on on dates with girls i meet from myspace, but i never go out to bars or clubs or parties (at least not for the last 9 months or so), just because I always have at least 20 #s in my phone and can always holla at a girl and chill with her. This is good and bad. Good cuz I have dates and stuff to do, but its REALLY BAD because it leads to social isolation and it just makes me lazy and not wanna go out. Over time, this may be a very bad thing, because it reduces your social skills (i am speaking from exprience, this isnt theory)


CONCLUSION

use myspace to land p$ssy, but be careful of side effects
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Very good post and so true.

My buddy met his current girlfriend on Myspace.

I have a strong feeling she will be the girl that he marries as he's a great person and so is she.

Plus they seem to be exactly what they are both looking for.
 

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Myspace can be good for meeting women. One of my friend's lost his virginity to a hor off Myspace! :crackup:
 

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Hell ya I no what you mean I got 4 girls wanting to party with me in the time it took to message all 4 of them an wait. The other thing with myspace is to write them then dont go on for about a week, when you come back on there will be a bunch waiting for you.
 

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honestly at the peak of my obsession, i would spend friday and saturday nights sending out messages probably to 300-500 girls.......i would log in sunday afternoon, have about 40 replies all with screen names, and throught the day on sunday, within 2-3 hours, I would have 10 new #s that i could call, and make dates with for eevery day the coming week

its a crazy addiction which DOES work, but it IS an addiction and it did lead me to becoming less social and wanting to go out less, unless it was with the girls tho i had dates with

its a gray area
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ToughLove said:
honestly at the peak of my obsession, i would spend friday and saturday nights sending out messages probably to 300-500 girls.......i would log in sunday afternoon, have about 40 replies all with screen names, and throught the day on sunday, within 2-3 hours, I would have 10 new #s that i could call, and make dates with for eevery day the coming week

its a crazy addiction which DOES work, but it IS an addiction and it did lead me to becoming less social and wanting to go out less, unless it was with the girls tho i had dates with

its a gray area
From what I've seen, 40 replies is a pretty good return. Are you a good-looking guy TL? Can you post a pic/myspace link? I'm wondering how much looks are a factor here.

Also, where did you meet most of these chicks on a first date?
 

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Obliteraga said:
From what I've seen, 40 replies is a pretty good return. Are you a good-looking guy TL? Can you post a pic/myspace link? I'm wondering how much looks are a factor here.

Also, where did you meet most of these chicks on a first date?

aight dude no links to my page will be available cuz i got haters, who knows wtf they will do if they see my page and friend list

#2 yea im good lookin in my pics

#3 most times i meet them somewhere public for 1st date and we hit up the movies.........bout 25% of the time i go to her house or she comes to mine. Girls are more willing to do shyt than u think - if u give your address, she got no problem driving there if she has a car, cuz it puts u in the "non stalker" catergory cuz u gave her YOUR address, which means theres no way U can stalk HER like a creep, so she feels safer that way
 

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Yesterday I went out to meet up with my friends, one of the girl who is a model knew this guy that brought them there. I asked her she knew the guy and she said "Friendster" I was in shock for a sec because the guy was an AFC, probably a lil below AFC and isnt good looking. Am temped to really give it a try :/
 

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Analytic - just heed my advice bout myspace

if u r gonna be a myspace pimp, then prepare for your club/bar/party game to drop like a fly
 

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how do you filter through the girls, ToughLove? Do you set a 20 mile radius, or larger?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ToughLove said:
Analytic - just heed my advice bout myspace

if u r gonna be a myspace pimp, then prepare for your club/bar/party game to drop like a fly
Its all about time management isn't it? I mean if you just setup a certain time out of the day to message and reply then it should'n take much time. You only waste time if you keep refreshing your page for new messages or keep modifying your page.

I have a question, what kind of pictures did you put up?
 

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Not to sh!t on you guys' parade but MySpace is chick crack. It's the lazy, uninformed man's path to dating. The only - ONLY -people you'll find on MySpace are attention wh0res and flakes.

I use MySpace to push my book/films and touch base with friends and family. For that it's a useful tool.
 

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The only - ONLY -people you'll find on MySpace are attention wh0res and flakes.
well you must be calling ToughLove a liar then, because he claims otherwise -- and based on experience. Did you even read his post?
 

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Obsidian said:
well you must be calling ToughLove a liar then, because he claims otherwise -- and based on experience. Did you even read his post?
Yes I read the post. And I am saying that any chick who you have to meet on MySpace is there for one of two reasons. Attention or affirmation of her selectivity.

My question to you is how many successful relationships have you or any other brother gotten from MySpace?
 

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i haven't, but I haven't really tried it much, either

generally girls don't even respond when I msg them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KarmaSutra said:
Not to sh!t on you guys' parade but MySpace is chick crack. It's the lazy, uninformed man's path to dating. The only - ONLY -people you'll find on MySpace are attention wh0res and flakes.

I use MySpace to push my book/films and touch base with friends and family. For that it's a useful tool.
Quite the contradiction don't you think? if you and your friends also use Myspace then are you and your friends attention wh ores and flakes?
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Yes I read the post. And I am saying that any chick who you have to meet on MySpace is there for one of two reasons. Attention or affirmation of her selectivity.

My question to you is how many successful relationships have you or any other brother gotten from MySpace?

ive had 4 in 2 years, each one lasting 3 months at least, and they ended cuz i became an ******* cuz i wanted to lose them, but they were great girls

i still date 2 from myspace right now

they are out there
 

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Quite the contradiction don't you think? if you and your friends also use Myspace then are you and your friends attention wh ores and flakes?
You tool. Read what I wrote. I wouldn't use MySpace for dating or relationship purposes.
 

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Now...my question to you ToughLove...what is the most successful way that you have found to open girls through myspace?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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