"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Myspace Question
- Thread starter crossboss
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
I've had nothing in my myspace 'about me' section and have had girls email me n00dz. First, make sure your pic is decent. The girl has to be somewhat attracted to you in order for this chit to work. I've had just a pic of my abs and this has worked.crossboss said:
Ok, so once you're chatting with her the trick is that you've gotta get her comfy talking with you about anything. Start her off slow. If you have AIM, then get her talking on AIM or Yahoo! messenger. *Phone is best*, but some girls prefer the IM chat. To ger her on the phone, ask her for her number and call right then.
Once you get her in a live chat situation, start her off slow by asking what kind of underwear she's wearing. If you get a good response, then ask her if she shaves or is 'au natural'. Next, talk about sex. If she's cool w/ talking about sex and her favorite positions, if she swallows, etc. Then, ask her for nudes. She might just be super hot right then and their and shoot you a nude OR she might start with sending you one of herself in a swimsuit. When you get a pic, compliment her and ask for more. She might not have anything more than one of herself covering her boobs w/ her hands.
If she has no nudes, but has a webcam, then she might strip for you if you ask -- this is the best case scenario IMO. You can usually set up a meeting with girls like this. While they're stripping, they'll usually say shyt like "I wish you were here right now". You can usually get them to masturbate for you too. Once you've seen her stripping/nudes in addition to her phone number, then the deal is pretty much closed. *if the girl does not have nudes or webcam, switch to phone and have phone sex*
While in this type of situation (if you and her are both up for it), you can meet up with her that night or within a day or so. Strike while the iron is hot! However, same-night online hookups are rare for me. I usually bang her within a couple days. What you do is set up a meeting at a local mall, pick her up in your car and drive to your place. You can also have her drive to your place, whatever. Just meet up and fcuk.
Went off on a tangent there... If you want the nudes, just keep asking. Ask and ask to and find out how far you can push the envelope. She'll eventually send you one if you have a good enough rapport. However, if you piss her off, she might just disconnect from AIM/Y!, turn off her webcam or hang up. I've had many girls do this to me. Just part of the drill.
In yahoo chat rooms, I've found many girls are hot to go within minutes of chatting or they're ice cold. If I'm on a roll, and I encounter a cold fish, I next the IM convo and find another one within a minute.
Bottom line is you ask the girl for them, the girl won't just up and email you nude pix of herself.
Good Luck!
Eric
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.