"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Myspace pimpin aint easy

BlackDragon

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How do you handle gurls that u fck on myspace but dont want to relationship? kinda of suck becuase im trying to break it off with this one chick i been seeing for 2 weeks with another gurl i met this week. but you know how myspace is...you get comments from other gurls and they talk about the night before and how much they miss you....making other gurls jealous when they read your page.

i tried the disapproval and approval method...but then they start asking why you didn't accept their comments. Pimping on myspace aint easy if you ask me. and then that top friends bull****...if you have it they want to be at the top...and when u hide the friendlist they start *****ing why you hide it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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