frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
im glad that im a kbj....really...that makes my day to have you call me that...you must be the most proud guy now.KBJ who actually make theories that are interesting are the best kind... thanks friv
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
im glad that im a kbj....really...that makes my day to have you call me that...you must be the most proud guy now.KBJ who actually make theories that are interesting are the best kind... thanks friv
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The point is, they're getting women. Who give a sh!t how they do it? Most of the chicks you pull in the club probably have MySpace accounts, so what difference does it make in what venue you meet them?frivolousz21 said:but they get there women from the internet.
Yes KBJ are our nations saviours. Without them we wouldn't have televisions, telephones, the wheel, language, emoticaons, or soft chairs to sit on.frivolousz21 said:im glad that im a kbj....really...that makes my day to have you call me that...you must be the most proud guy now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
oh well, only time will tell which you really are.
a what test?Just consider it a shyt test... you failed
Those would be my sentiments too, were it not for the fact that a lot of girls seem to be liking emo guys these days.Holland said:Good for us. More AFC's, so it gets easyer for us![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
flippinfreak said:I'm not trying to feel superior, I'm just seeing if you pay attention to the body of the messsage, or the negative statements.
Just consider it a shyt test... you failed![]()
johnmich said:i hold doors open for people
me tooWyldfire said:I think myspace is dumb...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Make it 2.flippinfreak said:I just checked my user controls and it says I've recieved only one bad reputation point. That's pretty funny![]()
LOL! We need this smiley for situations like this:( . )( . ) said:but in this particular "battle of the retards" flippinfreak wins out.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.