Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MYSPACE INSTRUCTIONS - from 1st message to 1st date (VERY INFORMATIVE)

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Myspace is for losers or people who want to keep in contact with distant/hardly talked to friends. I am in the latter category, your guide is for twelve year olds who think they can hook up over AIM.

GO OUT AND MEET WOMEN IN PERSON. Simple as that.
...or bands!!! My space has done wonders for me and my music.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anyone have a script that will send it to all girls meeting a certain requirement?

i know they have these auto-friend-request scripts... any auto message scripts?
 

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Hey I have fat girls responding back to me. :woo:
Face look cute, but you look on bigger pictures and they a little fat.
 

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I've met 1 girl off myspace. I say you have to have good pics and preferably good looks or be intrigiung in a non creepy way for more chances of success.
 

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I've met 1 girl off myspace. I say you have to have good pics and preferably good looks or be intrigiung in a non creepy way for more chances of success.

u better not be creepy in person, online, or on the phone

dont be creepy PERIOD, girls hate creepiness more than they hate AFCness
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright well I'm testing this out, I sent 27 spam messages last night. Got 3 responses so far all with sns although one sent a yahoo msgr. Like 70% still haven't even got the message so it looks like its working alright so far. I don't get why you gotta BLOCK them though, why not just stop chatting if you come across that situation and still give her a chance to beg you....just a thought. I live in a small area now so I had to message chicks like 20-30 mins away so I hope thats not gonna be a prob. Well I will keep you guys updated.
 

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oh Zero Hero, when i block them, it removes them from my buddylist so it leaves open space for girls who are worth the time and gets rid of those who arent
 

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bump - people need to see this, i see too many dumb myspace questions when they are all answered here!
 

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omg man. I tried exactly almost word for word what you said and in my first attempt it worked exactly like you said it would. She gave me her Screename, I asked her for her name on MSN messenger and then asked her what she thought of my pics. She said " You are very cute". then I asked why you are single, she said " I guess i havent been looking really"

Then she asked why Im single, I said " I dont shower.JK" then she laughed and we talked about we both party with friends. I said "I cant wait till I come home on leave soon" shes like "to hang out with me" i said " u wanna chill sometime" and without hesitation, shes like "yeah i would love too" then she said her parents took away her cell phone cuz she ran up the bill but when I said "I gotta go", shes like "no, please stay"

All in all it went excellent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi all,

Great thread! :cool: What do you guys think of my photos? Click on them for the full size versions. Also, on the myspace profile itself, what kind of things should we write in there? Shoudl we give a description? have a survey? etc? I knwo most of you say don't put too much... well how much is too much?









 

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if i were you id put up pic 2, 3 and 4 first ones too posery and you dont want too many pics.
 

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Personally I dont use myspace as I prefer the face to face approach, but it seems like as soon as someone makes a post trying to help people other users sh!t all over it and instead of posting something constructive or helpful they just act superior because they dont need as much help as someone else. There are only two reasons to post on this site one reason is to share advice with people who need it and the other is for self improvement. There is no point in wasting peoples time by chatting sh!t and not being helpful. Constructive criticism is helpful but putting people down is not.
 
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I'm have reviewed this thread, and I too am going to jump on the myspace gold-mine bandwagon.

The only thing is I dont have a wide selection of prospects unless I expand my area (i.e. 75 prospects within a 20 mile radius from where I live). So, I guess I have to expand prospects or something like that.

I can put some pictures up. I'm not sure what to put on my profile - but right now I'm thinking of putting anything up where I wont seem like a wierdo or nut - but I like Skip's idea - I'm taking any ideas on here about getting laid through the internet so I'm keeping an open mind.

I really dig the idea about spamming, so I'm looking into this world.

I'm trying to think of some generic two to three sentence profile.
 
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myspacepickupguide said:
Take pictures of you and your hot girl 'friends' from that weekend you hung out at the beach (for example).

This projects many things at once. The fact that you are a fun person, not just some loser looking for ass; that other hot girls think you're cool because you have proof of hanging out with them; that you have a life; that you look good with your shirt off, etc...

Be creative and don't do what everyone else is doing. (otherwise you'll get what everyone else is getting, and 99% of guys on Myspace get absolutely nothing).

MPUG
Great post. I'm going to make sure I put two 'social proof pics' up, I took with my attractive cousins, and call them 'friends', and a third face pic, and some other pic and place them up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PROFILE on MYSPACE account:

About me: My name is XYZ, that's right, I'm Italian background - known for being men with balls. These pics are me and my friends chilling around. If you would like to join the party then get back to me.

I'd like to meet: Someone who knows how to have an intelligent conversation and has healthy attitudes towards men.

*******

Uploading pics with me and cousins, and some pics of myself next.
 

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There is a lot of bad information in this post. Seriously.

I've ****ed 20+ chicks from myspace and I disagree with a lot of what he said.
 

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NatiL said:
There is a lot of bad information in this post. Seriously.

I've ****ed 20+ chicks from myspace and I disagree with a lot of what he said.

thank you for saying there is bad information without backing up your statement one bit.

explain to me how 1 thing i said does not work?
 
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NatiL said:
There is a lot of bad information in this post. Seriously.

I've ****ed 20+ chicks from myspace and I disagree with a lot of what he said.
What bad information?
 
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This is the myspace page I just constructed yesterday. Whole sets of pics are included. Still thinking of what to put in the profile.

http://www.myspace.com/99641982

I'm not interested in a totally honest profile, just one that will do the job and pick up some ONS from the internet - or pick up some hb slvt on the internet that will do anyone.

I'm thinking about fibbing about my age since I still think I look yonger than I actually am.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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