"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Myspace - I shouldn't even have used this.

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MisterAl

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I have a Myspace account. I use it to keep in touch with a relative and a couple friends, though one of the women (Girl B) I'm dating happened to have an account so I friended her a while back and we occasionally use Myspace to communicate.

Meanwhile, another woman I'm seeing (Girl A) told me she has a profile so I checked it out. I imagine she expects a friend request from me. I am beyond not happy with the idea that multiple women I'm seeing simultaneously might be visible in my friends list. There are other women in my friends list but they are either family or friends.

These two women are my Girls A and B out of five. I am not pleased with risking losing them for my lesser options if they start getting nosy. I have been stepping up making friend contacts with past schoolmates so that Girl A's profile will blend in with a list of ten or so friends rather than sticking out.

On the other hand this Girl A has 70+ Myspace friends, so fvck it. She'll wonder why I have so few Myspace friends.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hi2u

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Good idea. Set it to let you approve your comments as well. Girls WILL be nosy if they like you, as you could expect from typical female behavior. I had a little tracker back when it worked and this girl that liked me would go to my page 6-7 times a day.
 
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don't overthink this man..

all i can say is "disable ur comments and pic comments" and make it so u can choose the comments u accept.. this got me in to some trouble in the past with an ex girlfriend lol.. other girls were commenting my pics and leaving flirty messages and she got all bent outta shape..

i think its good to use myspace but dont sit there and look at every one of her guy friends and compare urself and sh1t..

be careful man
 
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here's an easy solution go to http://www.bestmyspacecodes.com/ or any of the numerous support sites for myspace...They have codes to hide your friends list and comments...Just add one of the page backgrounds codes and if they ask why they can't see your friends...tell them its because of the code you put in...You'll be able to read them but chicks won't be able to snoop or mark their territory in your comment section.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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those trackers dont work anymore..but im sure they'll get around it soon
 
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I am beyond not happy with the idea that multiple women I'm seeing simultaneously might be visible in my friends list.
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It's not so terrible really!!

So the chick knows she has a little competition. She's not your committed gf.

You aren't talking about other women on dates, or any other crude behaviour. I don't think seeing other girls or your friends list will hurt.

Look up other stories on this board about non-serious female flings who discovered "the competition". Her interest goes through the roof, and she's willing to do ANYTHING to snatch you away from those other chicks. Jackpot.
 
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Women seeing other women in your friends list and commenting on your page is a good thing.
 
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