"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Myspace, how do you treat messages like this?

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Disclaimer: myspace haters hit alt+f4.

Lately I've been getting a few messages here and there like "hey I love your body" or "damn you're really hot" etc etc. Problem is, I think I mistake these for too much and quickly jump the gun to "hey you wanna hang out" which ends it there.

For anyone who's gotten messages like this, how do you treat them? I mean some messages are OBVIOUS come ons (usually from single mommies lol), but these I'm not so sure about how to treat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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muscleman said:
Disclaimer: myspace haters hit alt+f4.
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lol


muscleman said:
Lately I've been getting a few messages here and there like "hey I love your body" or "damn you're really hot" etc etc. Problem is, I think I mistake these for too much and quickly jump the gun to "hey you wanna hang out" which ends it there.

For anyone who's gotten messages like this, how do you treat them? I mean some messages are OBVIOUS come ons (usually from single mommies lol), but these I'm not so sure about how to treat.
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This is something the Interceptor told me that stuck with me and should help ya out. Attraction ≠ Interest. If a girl is attracted to you, its not that hard to get her interested too, but she usually won't start out being interested in you as well. You could be a good-looking stalker for all she knows. Don't flat out ask them out when they say "I think your hot," maybe chat them up a bit. Send them a couple messages on myspace, show that your more than just a pretty face. YOu'll find that building interest is pretty easy if you say a couple right things and the girl's already attracted to you.
 
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I know, lol.. I'm getting it all the time, sometimes I wish I was fat or ugly, that way I could focus on discovering a woman, instead of entertaining her with my hot looks.. You know honey, I'm more than just a hot buddy.. Oh honey, how I wish for a woman to be something more than just about my looks.. I wish she'd see me for who I am, my deeper self, and we could connect on that special level, and explore each other, and be free in eternal climax of love.. It would be so pure, and innocent, honey..

Are you single?
 
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