"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Myspace, how do you treat messages like this?

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Disclaimer: myspace haters hit alt+f4.

Lately I've been getting a few messages here and there like "hey I love your body" or "damn you're really hot" etc etc. Problem is, I think I mistake these for too much and quickly jump the gun to "hey you wanna hang out" which ends it there.

For anyone who's gotten messages like this, how do you treat them? I mean some messages are OBVIOUS come ons (usually from single mommies lol), but these I'm not so sure about how to treat.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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muscleman said:
Disclaimer: myspace haters hit alt+f4.
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lol


muscleman said:
Lately I've been getting a few messages here and there like "hey I love your body" or "damn you're really hot" etc etc. Problem is, I think I mistake these for too much and quickly jump the gun to "hey you wanna hang out" which ends it there.

For anyone who's gotten messages like this, how do you treat them? I mean some messages are OBVIOUS come ons (usually from single mommies lol), but these I'm not so sure about how to treat.
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This is something the Interceptor told me that stuck with me and should help ya out. Attraction ≠ Interest. If a girl is attracted to you, its not that hard to get her interested too, but she usually won't start out being interested in you as well. You could be a good-looking stalker for all she knows. Don't flat out ask them out when they say "I think your hot," maybe chat them up a bit. Send them a couple messages on myspace, show that your more than just a pretty face. YOu'll find that building interest is pretty easy if you say a couple right things and the girl's already attracted to you.
 
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I know, lol.. I'm getting it all the time, sometimes I wish I was fat or ugly, that way I could focus on discovering a woman, instead of entertaining her with my hot looks.. You know honey, I'm more than just a hot buddy.. Oh honey, how I wish for a woman to be something more than just about my looks.. I wish she'd see me for who I am, my deeper self, and we could connect on that special level, and explore each other, and be free in eternal climax of love.. It would be so pure, and innocent, honey..

Are you single?
 
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